I have a question for the group:
Someone from work is pesturing me about work things, leaving voicemails but not leaving references or information. I have told her plenty of times to send me an email if she needs something from me, as I do not like having to hunt people down on their phones. There is no reason for me to have to do things for her convenience.
So again, I am not calling her back because she left no context and I see no emails regarding an urgetn matter.
What does everything think this has to do with the 4th dimension, and karmic experiences? Any insights?
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Thanks Happy Kelly! It turns out that, as usual, it was a combination of things. She is a perfection freak that was threatened by the fact that I was not willing to be strung along by what made her comfortable, especially after having established proper boundaries. Because I have been instrumental in a number of business-saving ventures recently, she is undoubtedly also feeling threatened by my presence, as I neither respond to intimidation nor play phone-tag with those who do not take the courtesy to leave a message with proper context. My time is my time, and I will not have it any other way =)
I was contacted by a recruiter for the same company I word for when she was in the same office as me, and I let her overhear the fact that I was out of the New York in the end of May and would like to have a transfer available by then. As I expected, she brought the subject up, and become much more docile and conversational, having realized my tenure in new york was limited and that she would not be as threatened as she imagined.
Little does she realize, though, that I am informing all employees that I come across of their federally protected 15 minute breaks every 4 hours of scheduled work, as well as the one hour of non-paid time off they have for lunch that, by definition, is their time. She can try to micro-manage all she wants, but when people realize they can take care of themselves first she is going to be might frustrated. I hope not, though - I hope she takes the cue from all of us and settles down a little. you know. take a chill pill or something =)
I think I've had eons of experience dealing with what makes women tick, so I'm not surprised I would have an intuitive grasp of it during this lifetime =)
evil is the opposite of live. to ascend into the light, you must be willing to live with the vibrations of all on those higher frequencies. those who refuse to acknowledge any truth but their own most likely made a soul compact to descend to a lower frequency for further knowledge and growth.
Everyone is going to ascend, since time is an illusion born from the necessity of experience to learn to evolve and grow. This time around, anyone who refuses to acknowledge the karmic experiences that are being explosively channeled to each living soul will most likely descend to a 2nd or 1st dimensional state; since the earth is moving to a 5th dimensional state, there will literally not be a way for them to travel with the earth as it ascends.
you must not think of this as right or wrong, good or evil. It is all a matter of experience and choice, and time is the illusion that carries all the souls through this process until they can all ascend (if that's part of plan, of course lol, which would mean some choose to stay at lower frequencies, which sounds about right to me)
"I think I've had eons of experience dealing with what makes women tick, so I'm not surprised I would have an intuitive grasp of it during this lifetime =)" For dome incredibly strange reason, I found that comment Insanely funny. LOL! but please don't be offended as I am relaxing and when I do that I can act really peculiar. Reason I rarely rest. Hehehe
I also went O____O - it really is realy strange to hear my words repeated like this. WOW' This is REALLy going to take some getting used to. Sheista!
Kelly those that are not ready to ascend will never be lost, their place has already been prepared. It is ready. Everything is very close to ready, the scales are in place now Thoth and the crocodile need to find the balance and then we wait.
Hi rayviathae, you said ""Give a man a fish, feed him for a day; teach a man to fish, feed him for a life."
Sure that's a noble thing to teach another, in the proper context. When within economic slavery, it doesn't quite have the same applicability as it may have had back in history.
If ones labors are all retained and not stolen, then it's a good idea. However, today if a man caught 10 fish, at the end of the day he could only keep 2 and if I'm awake to this injustice and most are not, we have a major imbalance between those that don't seem to mind being or believe their slaves and those that do not wish to be enslaved. The old divide and conquer trick.
Unfortunately, what is being taught to most people is, be a good slave or die, or be like us manipulators at the top and figure out improved systems to rob everyone blind of their labors and property.
Oh and don't forget, that man (farmer) that just caught the 10 fish, was approached by one of the manipulators and offered money not to catch anymore fish in the future or to catch much less, to help create the illusion of lack.
Hi james, i would say, if someone is asking for help connected to their basic needs and one can be of help, then i myself would do what i could.
peace love light
Hahaha!
Silly little human thinking silly little thoughts with your silly little mind. You say you're awake but really you're looking for another nice drama to play into at the end of the day. Someday, you will actually see the real complexities in life, and then you'll start to awaken. As it stands, you and many others on this site are using what was supposed to be a wonderful place - a place to discuss true awakening - to gloat about how amazing you are and how evil everything else around you is, and to condemn others so that you can feel special. My only real response to that is - that's nice dear. Whatever you say. *smiles and nods*.
if you knew anything about what it meant to be human, you wouldn't say that.
seeing as you don't, I don't need to humor you with a response =)
but your condescending views are very amusing =) keep it coming!
lmao
Hi folks, Hi shelly, you said "Now I'm fine saying 'no, you must get your own food, pay rent or do chores'. I've been burnt many times which has now taught me where to draw the line. This is called 'loving myself first, then loving other's. Part of loving other's is expecting them to pull their weight."
No disrespect, you still don't get it.
Most of this world and societies have been engineered to create lack and a survival situation, so that the few can maintain control over the many.
We are indeed responsible for the basic needs of life of our brothers and sisters.
The manipulators are surely responsible as well, since they have and are actively maintaining this illusion of lack and survival with our ignorant help as well. To think that someone can take advantage of receiving food, a basic need, is comical.
By all means, you are entitled to your misguided beliefs. Though I would apply some heart felt compassion to your thoughts and maybe things will become clear.
The plain fact is this. We are all by divine right, entitled to all our basic needs being met and this planet can provide all those needs many times over.
So I would suggest researching and looking inside yourself for the answers to why all peoples needs are not being met, instead of jumping on the, 'every man or woman for themselves bandwagon', which has and will never work, as the world around us shows us by example that it does not work.
peace love light
I don't think Shelly was jumping on the "everyone for him/herself" bandwagon. I agree with what Shelly said, to an extent. When someone needs help, it's good to help that person to the best of our capacity. If that person then comes to rely on us, it's doing them a disservice to continue to provide that help at all times. There's the whole, "Give a man a fish, feed him for a day; teach a man to fish, feed him for a life," argument going on. If you give a man a fish every day, you're hurting yourself and you're hurting him. Let him get on his feet. Help him get on his feet. Sometimes, like when teaching a kid to ride a bike, you have to let go for a little bit so the other person can start walking on their own. Otherwise, the other person will be stunted in their spiritual journey. Why would they want to move forward, when they can just come to you with open hands and you'll pour whatever you can into them?
As to the original question asked in this post, my suggestion would be to again remind the person that if they need to get hold of you, they should email; you won't be responding to anything by phone because email is easier for you. Tell them that you see that they've been leaving you a lot of phone messages, but they haven't been giving you information you need, and you can't respond to that. Then say one last time, "Email me if you need anything; I won't respond to anything else," and leave it at that.
Thanks guys! I'm 30, so I guess I'm just a youngin' =)
I had to teach all of that stuff to myself - I wished I would have had ANY role model that could have shown me that either in my immediate or extended family, but I guess it wasn't part of my plan. Learnin' things from scratch is the human condition, and I likely would not have learned the lesson appropriately if I had assistance early in life. Interesting.
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