Your Lifestyle Has Already Been Designed

by David on July 29, 2010

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Well I’m in the working world again. I’ve found myself a well-paying gig in the engineering industry, and life finally feels like it’sreturning to normal after my nine months of traveling.

Because I had been living quite a different lifestyle while I was away, this sudden transition to 9-to-5 existence has exposed somethingabout it that I overlooked before.

Since the moment I was offered the job, I’ve been markedly more careless with my money. Not stupid, just a little quick to pull out mywallet. As a small example, I’m buying expensive coffees again, eventhough they aren’t nearly as good as New Zealand’s exceptional flatwhites, and I don’t get to savor the experience of drinking them on asunny café patio. When I was away these purchases were less off-handed,and I enjoyed them more.

I’m not talking about big, extravagant purchases. I’m talking about small-scale, casual, promiscuous spending on stuff that doesn’t reallyadd a whole lot to my life. And I won’t actually get paid for anothertwo weeks.

In hindsight I think I’ve always done this when I’ve been well-employed — spending happily during the “flush times.” Having spentnine months living a no-income backpacking lifestyle, I can’t help butbe a little more aware of this phenomenon as it happens.

I suppose I do it because I feel I’ve regained a certain stature, now that I am again an amply-paid professional, which seems to entitle meto a certain level of wastefulness. There is a curious feeling of poweryou get when you drop a couple of twenties without a trace of criticalthinking. It feels good to exercise that power of the dollar when youknow it will “grow back” pretty quickly anyway.

What I’m doing isn’t unusual at all. Everyone else seems to do this. In fact, I think I’ve only returned to the normal consumer mentalityafter having spent some time away from it.

One of the most surprising discoveries I made during my trip was that I spent much less per month traveling foreign counties (includingcountries more expensive than Canada) than I did as a regular workingjoe back home. I had much more free time, I was visiting some of themost beautiful places in the world, I was meeting new people left andright, I was calm and peaceful and otherwise having an unforgettabletime, and somehow it cost me much less than my humble 9-5 lifestyle herein one of Canada’s least expensive cities.

It seems I got much more for my dollar when I was traveling. Why?

A Culture of Unnecessaries

Here in the West, a lifestyle of unnecessary spending has been deliberately cultivated and nurtured in the public by big business.Companies in all kinds of industries have a huge stake in the public’spenchant to be careless with their money. They will seek to encouragethe public’s habit of casual or non-essential spending whenever theycan.

In the documentary The Corporation, a marketing psychologist discussed one of the methods she used to increase sales. Her staffcarried out a study on what effect the nagging of children had on theirparents’ likelihood of buying a toy for them. They found out that 20% to40% of the purchases of their toys would not have occurred ifthe child didn’t nag its parents. One in four visits to theme parkswould not have taken place. They used these studies to market theirproducts directly to children, encouraging them to nag their parents tobuy.

This marketing campaign alone represents many millions of dollars that were spent because of demand that was completely manufactured.

“You can manipulate consumers into wanting, and therefore buying, your products. It’s a game.” ~ Lucy Hughes, co-creator of “TheNag Factor”

This is only one small example of something that has been going on for a very long time. Big companies didn’t make their millions byearnestly promoting the virtues of their products, they made it bycreating a culture of hundreds of millions of people that buy way morethan they need and try to chase away dissatisfaction with money.

We buy stuff to cheer ourselves up, to keep up with the Joneses, to fulfill our childhood vision of what our adulthood would be like, tobroadcast our status to the world, and for a lot of other psychologicalreasons that have very little to do with how useful the product reallyis. How much stuff is in your basement or garage that you haven’t usedin the past year?

The real reason for the forty-hour workweek

The ultimate tool for corporations to sustain a culture of this sort is to develop the 40-hour workweek as the normal lifestyle. Under theseworking conditions people have to build a life in the evenings and onweekends. This arrangement makes us naturally more inclined to spendheavily on entertainment and conveniences because our free time is soscarce.

I’ve only been back at work for a few days, but already I’m noticing that the more wholesome activities are quickly dropping out of my life:walking, exercising, reading, meditating, and extra writing.

The one conspicuous similarity between these activities is that they cost little or no money, but they take time.

Suddenly I have a lot more money and a lot less time, which means I have a lot more in common with the typical working North American than Idid a few months ago. While I was abroad I wouldn’t have thought twiceabout spending the day wandering through a national park or reading mybook on the beach for a few hours. Now that kind of stuff feels likeit’s out of the question. Doing either one would take most of one of myprecious weekend days!

The last thing I want to do when I get home from work is exercise. It’s also the last thing I want to do after dinner or before bed or assoon as I wake, and that’s really all the time I have on a weekday.

This seems like a problem with a simple answer: work less so I’d have more free time. I’ve already proven to myself that I can live afulfilling lifestyle with less than I make right now. Unfortunately,this is close to impossible in my industry, and most others. You work40-plus hours or you work zero. My clients and contractors are allfirmly entrenched in the standard-workday culture, so it isn’t practicalto ask them not to ask anything of me after 1pm, even if I couldconvince my employer not to.

The eight-hour workday developed during the industrial revolution in Britain in the 19th century, as a respite for factory workers who werebeing exploited with 14- or 16-hour workdays.

As technologies and methods advanced, workers in all industries became able to produce much more value in a shorter amount of time.You’d think this would lead to shorter workdays.

But the 8-hour workday is too profitable for big business, not because of the amount of work people get done in eight hours (theaverage office worker gets less than three hours of actual work done in 8hours) but because it makes for such a purchase-happy public. Keepingfree time scarce means people pay a lot more for convenience,gratification, and any other relief they can buy. It keeps them watchingtelevision, and its commercials. It keeps them unambitious outside ofwork.

We’ve been led into a culture that has been engineered to leave us tired, hungry for indulgence, willing to pay a lot for convenience andentertainment, and most importantly, vaguely dissatisfied with our livesso that we continue wanting things we don’t have. We buy so muchbecause it always seems like something is still missing.

Western economies, particularly that of the United States, have been built in a very calculated manner on gratification, addiction, andunnecessary spending. We spend to cheer ourselves up, to rewardourselves, to celebrate, to fix problems, to elevate our status, and toalleviate boredom.

Can you imagine what would happen if all of America stopped buying so much unnecessary fluff that doesn’t add a lot of lasting value to ourlives?

The economy would collapse and never recover.

All of America’s well-publicized problems, including obesity, depression, pollution and corruption are what it costs to create andsustain a trillion-dollar economy. For the economy to be “healthy”,America has to remain unhealthy. Healthy, happy people don’t feel likethey need much they don’t already have, and that means they don’t buy alot of junk, don’t need to be entertained as much, and they don’t end upwatching a lot of commercials.

The culture of the eight-hour workday is big business’ most powerful tool for keeping people in this same dissatisfied state where the answerto every problem is to buy something.

You may have heard of Parkinson’s Law. It is often used in reference to time usage: the more time you’ve been given to do something, the moretime it will take you to do it. It’s amazing how much you can get donein twenty minutes if twenty minutes is all you have. But if you have allafternoon, it would probably take way longer.

Most of us treat our money this way. The more we make, the more we spend. It’s not that we suddenly need to buy more just because we make more, only that we can, so we do. In fact, it’s quite difficult for us to avoid increasing ourstandard of living (or at least our rate of spending) every time we get araise.

I don’t think it’s necessary to shun the whole ugly system and go live in the woods, pretending to be a deaf-mute, as Holden Caulfieldoften fantasized. But we could certainly do well to understand what bigcommerce really wants us to be. They’ve been working for decades tocreate millions of ideal consumers, and they have succeeded. Unlessyou’re a real anomaly, your lifestyle has already been designed.

The perfect customer is dissatisfied but hopeful, uninterested in serious personal development, highly habituated to the television,working full-time, earning a fair amount, indulging during their freetime, and somehow just getting by.

Is this you?

Two weeks ago I would have said hell no, that’s not me, but if all my weeks were like this one has been, that might be wishful thinking.


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  • Hi folks, janos and vagelis make good points and I agree a transition phase is obviously needed to phase out so called monetary systems.

    I agree with vangelis. At the stage of evolution that humanity is at, those that are still asleep at the wheel would continue to corrupt any systems that can be used to centralize power over others again.

    No matter how one tries to view monetary systems, it will always represent a tool that inserts itself between human interactions, no matter how benevolent the intentions may be. It ultimately is not needed.

    Another angle on meeting basic needs of all people that has not been mentioned, is the fact that many ways of providing our basic needs of shelter, food, water, clothing are obsolete and self defeating.

    A) We all know how people break down their monthly budgets, well let us do the same with basic needs, shelter for starters.

    1) Why do we have to pay for dirt and/or rent it. That is one aspect that blows the whole idea of needing to work for money to get shelter out of the water.

    2) Reason we are forced to pay money for dirt/rent is to keep the enslavement going.

    B) Now lets look at food.

    1) In the transition phase, farmers would be needed for a time.

    2) Now that we can all freely use dirt and people can now make use of all the stolen or boarded up homes (foreclosed, etc. etc) people also can start making new homes using old or new building techniques like cob or adobe and other methods.

    Also, now that people have homes free of any tyrannical control, they will all make gardens and greenhouses and this at some point will create a decentralized massive food network, whereby people can freely exchange produce with one another and those that may be lacking at any given time.

    3) also integrated into this decentralized people food network, are the freeing of suppressed energy technologies going back at least 100 years and this will help in the operation of the people power food networks.

    My vision to be continued, if you folks wish.

    peace love light 

    • Thank you for posting this link.
      Who wants to start a thread on this important topic?

      Table of contents
      Executive summary
      Introduction
      How we all use our time today
      Practical examples of doing things differently
      How the ‘working week’ was invented
      Reasons why we want to move towards 21 hours
      Transitional problems
      Necessary conditions
      • "Who wants to start a thread on this important topic"

        No one?? Then you do not believe that the basic conspiracy is to keep us wage-slaves forever?

        Or do you think there is nothing that can be done about it? Or do you think it does not apply to you?

        [This response refers to Peaceful Warrior's post

        and the link given there refers to a pdf document]

    • yes... a 20 hour work-week is not bad solution for a transition period... this way the unemployment can reduce, and ppl will have also more free time...
      • This would also imply a minimum living income, enough for a simple but healthful lifestyle. It would also reduce the pressure on the economy to grow and minimize, in turn, its destructive foot print on the environment.

        We already produce too much. That causes the depressions every ten years or so---goods and services are not cleared from "the market".
  • Sadly, I am trapped in a 40 hour schoolweek, and I face the same things.
    Of course, I don't have my own source of income, but I'm stuck in Wake Up, Clean Up, Go To School, Come Home, Do Nothing Useful (except for here!), Eat, Sleep cycle.
    I pursue a few hobbies, and lately school has been kinda boring. I'm not saying run away, but is there something I could do?

    by the way, I'm in a smart people school.
    • When one of our grandsons started school (in New Zealand), we asked how he like it, he summed up the compulsory school system by saying "it's ok, but you can not do what you choose".
      Well, that is not "educere"--- bringing out what each of us has within.

      Think what it means when a teacher says to a four or five year old, "finish your work, then you can play".
  • Greetings everyone,

    It would be really helpful to know to which post our replies refer. Often it is not clear at all; this one, for example (the indent clue is useless when there are several replies to one post).
    There is an easy way of doing this with the "hyperlink" button and the "permalink to this reply" button.
  • Great discussion people. I used to work full-time, then half-time, then left to be self-employed. I now have about 5 mini-jobs, all casual or self-employed. Total hours worked per week = usually no more than 15 hrs!

    It is possible to extract yourself from the system, but it takes intention, planning and tenacity. The rewards are well worth it.

    I challenge everyone to look at the possibilties for leaving 'the workforce', and make it happen for you.

    The system can only function through voluntary compliance - in other words, it's your choice whether and to what extent you participate.
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