... is always worth a look.
There ar many nice butts walking around in this world. If you are a man, you know what I`m talking about.
For some reason something in your soul made you sensitive and soft. You hated the hard guys. You loved understanding and listening instead.
Over the years you have collected lots of experience. The case with women...
Well, you say, this is pretty weird, the case with women. You wanted to live with your soft soul exposing. You lived your feminine part hoping you understand women. You always wanted to be a good man
Macho style pissed you off and rough guys smelling like sweating horses.
Goddamn, and the chicks didn`t look at you and you got almost crazy when a nice butt walked by...
Oh yeah, they liked you, the chicks. They liked you as a guy who can listen and understand. They even invited you to their home for speaking. Godamn, but they didn`t see you as real man.
You have become a master in masturbation and dreaming of squirting pussies licking for you, the soft and good man...
Lord God, you prayed more than once, grant me someone to love, and you didn`t dare to say that you dream of nice butts and squirting pussies and the smell of peaches and patchouly...
Thus you became an inward man, a man of thoughts and feelings, a sensitive guy with strong character. If there where not those nice butts walking by once in a while...
You might masturbate as often as you want till your dick is swollen and big like a pumpkin. And you may dream like having a perfect tinsel town in your head. It will change nothing. And fucking with a dead rubber doll is ridicules and doesn`t help nothing.
Next time you see a butt walking by try to force you doing this: look into the face. There is a living being walking by. A being with a face. And sometimes with a smile you would not see while looking at the butt alone...
You are a good and soft guy indeed, but force you to be not too impressive once you see a woman. Be not too open and do not expose your softness too fast. And say not yes to everything a woman tells you. And do not smile too much.
In case you have a date you must avoid putting pressure on her under all circumstances. And do never force her to get her into bed.
Do not use your spiritual interests for filling your existential gap of missing someone to love. Being by ourselves is not bad, but not with an underlying gap we use to close by spirituality.
A gap can only be filled by easygoing mind flows - your mind must be silent. In case of love to a woman - why not daring to go to someone straight and say: I have seen you, and I`m impressed, this gives me a nice day, and you turn around and go? Spirituality also means practicing courage, courage to say something and courage to accept a NO.
Look more into faces and see what happens...
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YEA!..or some sinister subliminal message..lol
Jesus comes to mind when you say this. He wept for Lazuraus, He wept for his people, He wept for Jerusalum and he kissed his Apostles. But he was ALL MAN!
LOL..I dont know wether to turn away or to keep looking!..lol..I feel like if I keep looking something spooky might happen to me..idk..lol
Agree with that!
what is she eating?
looks nice, maybe i'll do that to myself,,
ahahahahhha
p.s
as for butts, i cant tell if anyone notices mine becos i dont have eyes at the back of my head, lol
@Peekay I wasnt going to say anyting, but what in the HELLicopter is this??
be mean keep em keen? How would you feel if she did that to you? if you immediately assume that a woman will be a princess because she has a pretty face then it is absolutely no wonder why i get treated like dirt under a man's shoe and why I absolutely detest the arrogance of men. I know you aren't all the same but I have yet to meet a man whose mature enough to see past my face. I hope one day to learn to progress past this but your posts totally prove my point.
Well you guys, or girls, are part to blame too. A nice, sweet, sensitive guy gets nowhere with most girls. I've seen it more than enough. I've seen alot of my friends, who are with a girl, they're nice and sweet, and the girl ends up leaving him and going with a jerk. Or the women who's in a relationship with a jerk, who will abuse her, even physically...and she still stays with him. That happened alot to my mother.
Because you girls are attracted to power...and it's based on your primal instincts, a strong powerful man can protect you. You'll feel safe. A soft sensitive guy isn't man enough, and you instinctively want a man. And it's the same for guys, we're attracted to big hips and big breasts because big hips can better hold a baby, and big breasts can better feed it. And a girl without that isn't woman enough, and we're instinctively attracted to a woman.
Of course that's all base primal instinct, that we're supposed to grow out of. Sadly many people are still in those instincts...maybe not here in this spiritual community, but out there in the world...it sure is. In higher states, both masculine and feminine energies are balanced...you have the right mix of love and power...softness and strength...and what's important is the persons inner being, not their physical body. Hopefully we'll learn to evolve passed the primal...and move from animals to divine beings.
yes and no, I'm most definitely not attracted to power as I know where it stems from but I also know that I'm not a normal woman, I'm a real woman and there aren't many real women around. Just as there aren't many real men around. But your instincts and what you've been taught about the way to treat a woman aren't exactly EVER good for the woman. be mean and keep em keen is perfect example, take away her power make her feel ugly and useless, stupid and a waste of space and bam shes down on your level and forced into a situation where you hold the power. a real man is NOT scared of a womans power, he wants to share in it because he knows that both of them together create something far stronger and more beautiful than they can seperately. This is far too much effort for most males of nowadays who are used to being mothered and watching their mother do everything for everyone else but herself. Society forces women into servitude roles where they get no credit and the man does little to nothing and gets credit for all. Where are the real men? Hiding in themselves because its easier to be a boy than grow up and learn the social skills necessary to attract and keep a real woman. a sweet sensitive guy is often too much for a real woman as she has more strength in the situation than him and instinctively knows he will emotionally take more than she can give, once he realises the confidence in himself he will literally become the most attractive man out there to any real woman. a princess won't notice him because she is far too caught up in herself anyway. Its definitely fault (i'm sure thats the wrong word but going to go with it anyway) on both sides, and trust me it is just as frustrating to be a real woman, pretty with intelligence and a very very big heart who only ever seems to get a boy where she wants a man. I would rather have no one that a boy just as I'm sure that a real man would rather have no one than a princess.
Well I'd never make a women feel ugly and useless....stupid and a waste of space...that's horrible xD I mean..my girlfriend now, she's not the prettiest girl....but I'd never say that to her, because I love her, and I wouldn't do anything to hurt her. I may be firm with her sometimes...but I'd never be mean to her. How could you be mean to someone you love xD
But sadly most guys aren't that way. They're not balanced, either they're too soft, or too hard. Like my cousin, she met a guy who now beats her, he almost killed her once...and she still stays with him. I can't understand that. Or my sister, who's dating a rather soft guy, and she completely takes him for granted. I don't understand that either. What is wrong with people lol We live in a fake world xD
I'm just lucky I'm with my girlfriend...she's sweet and heart felt...and she's intelligent....and it may not seem like it to people here, but in real life, I'm a sweet guy with a big heart...who's also strong and powerful. We have a great relationship, child like but also very mature. And I'm sure one day you'll meet a guy who you'll love, who will love you, who will be sure enough of himself and have the masculine, feminine balance. And you'll be sure enough of yourself and have that masculine, feminine balance. Don't despair, there's still many good guys out there, real guys....and I'm sure you'll find one :D
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