A question on old relationships...

A question on old relationships and friends...

For the past year or so, I've really devoted myself and especially my thoughts to love, compassion, optimism, hope, faith, etc.  I've also spent a great deal of attention to not always thinking my way through every problem, but *feeling* and reflecting instead.  Most importantly I try never to judge another, and when in a conversation or situation when judgement of any form is taking place, I aim to redirect or qualm any of the negative through positive responses and words instead of passing judgment.

I've developed a much more inner positive and loving nature, and my question for this post and my main cause of concern is that it has made me more sensitive to negativity/hatred/fear and maybe in some circumstances, I've become unconformable and easily frustrated.  I believe that my newfound nature has in some instances affected some of my relationships from the past.

I met up with some old best friends a few weekends ago and it immediately became apparent that I became very unconformable with what was being said and taking place.  Outwardly, I didn't let it affect our friendship but on the inside it really clashed with me on a deeper level.  A clashing that never took place years before.

What does one do when old relationships no longer resonate positively with oneself? Should this polarity be experienced? Avoided? Or simply acknowledged for what it is?

 

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  • Thanks for the wonderful responses and insight Shelly and Katt.

    Your guidance goes a long way in helping others, that is for sure.
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