FORGIVENESS IS GOOD BUT THAT DOESNT MEAN LETTING PEOPLE GET AWAY WITH REALLY BAD ACTIONS AGAINST YOU OR OTHERS.
TURNING THE OTHER CHEEK DOESNT IMPLY ALLOWING PEOPLE TO AVOID THE REAL CONSEQUENCES OF THEIR ACTIONS.
I DONT THINK WE OUGHT TO SPARE THE ROD TO SPARE THE PERPETRATOR...
CAN WE TELL ON PEOPLE WITHOUT HATING THEM FOREVER DO YOU NOT THINK?
CAN WE SEE THEIR ABUSE AS THEIR KARMA AND CONNECT IT IN LOVE WITH OUR OWN ?!?!?!
READ ON .......ENJOY
This goes out to all the people who’ve survived or are surviving violation by one or more of the many forms of violence, cruelty and abuse.
You know who you are, though many people around you won’t. Often the survivors of mistreatment keep the secret to themselves, feeling the pain and shame burning hot as hell inside them forever alone.
Now could be the time to extinguish these fires. Now could be the time to shine, to stand in your power and strength undamaged, to reclaim the inner sense of your innocence returned.
Don’t keep the perpetrators secrets and lies.
Perhaps the largest cruelty in violence and violation is the holding of shame by the victim. Victims silence is very common and it means they continue to hold the hurt in their hearts for what happened.
A problem shared is a problem halved so tell at least one person. Better still tell as many people as you can. Love really exists. There are many who will readily help and care. You will have our respect and approval to contradict the cruelty.
Be aware that sadly some people, regardless of their age, are immature. They may not know how to react appropriately. Be unconcerned if and as this occurs. Keep walking forward towards the many who are worthy of your confidence.
Letting the darkness out from the inside of your heart is an act of great courage. As you do so you’ll feel a great weight lift. You’ll feel as though you can finally breathe clean air again.
You will also feel the range of emotions previously trapped inside you leave in horrid hot rush of anxiety sadness and exhaustion. Remember as this happens that pain is better out than in. Feeling pain leaving is a good sign.
When you stand in shameless strength, staring the crime and it’s perpetrator in the eye, you become larger than the pain and trauma. In fact and effect you become stronger than you would ever have been had the crimes never occurred.
Reclaim your power to heal yourself. In healing yourself you help us all. As your power returns you become a leader. You are our hero.
MY BELOVED WROTE A LIST OF THE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SHE EXPERIENCED BY HER E FOR 17 YEARS PLUS. SENT IT TO ALL THE PEOPLE SHE AND HE KNEW ON FACE BOOK. TOLD THEM THIS WAS WHAT SHE HAD HIDDEN ALL THESE YEARS..SCARY FOR HER BUT HER PHYSICAL PAIN IN HER ARM /CHEST/ HEAD DISAAPEARED ALMOST INSTANTLY...SHE FELT LIGHTER .. MANY PEOPLE CAME TO HER IN LOVE...WE BOTH CRIED HAPPY TEARS. I DONT HAVE AS MUCH ANGER IN ME EITHER !... SHE FELT VERY VEY TIRED ALL OF A SUDDEN...
I CANT RECOMEND THIS HIGHLY ENOUGH
BELOVED
ENJOY
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YOURE REAL EXPERIENCE INCLUDES YET TRANSCENDS THE VIOLATION
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YOU ARE PART OF A GRAND FAMILY
THAT DOESNT SOMTHER YOU WITH DEMANDS AND EXPECTATIONS
A FAMILY THAT CHEERS FOR YOUR SUCCESS AND WATCHES YOUR STRUGGLES PATIENTLY WAITING
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it seems endless doesnt it
i have two ideas about that ..not sure which one, if either, applies( to me/you others )
1. a breif story i met a woman who had survived a long horrible time . she was really lovely calm and wise. she said " i wasnt always this way" , " not so long ago i was a tough angry person".. " then i started crying...and it felt like would never stop, it went on for years !...and then it stopped..i just didnt have any tears left in me " ...i know professionally/theory and observed practise in others and myself that when youre in discharge of emotions it feels endless...and then it stops quite suddenly...like the bottle is empty.
2 the jc phenomenom...( my name for it).. sensitive souls of a certain strain of star seed are here to absorb responsabley the pain that surround you/us...the pain felt is actually the pain that you gather up around you from those less aware/ less sensitive to feel it for them it is thus a philanthropic gift... ( he died for our sins).. the trick if this rings for you is to detach your own stroy from it and open your heart to love of all souls and very much to love and humbly respect,,, even admire... the soul that you are...
past life therapy works well too ...lol...but you got to get a good helper and that is rare
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I never experienc3d any abuse as a child. the home and family I grew up loved me unconditionally without any borders which I caried with me for many yrs however as an adult I had experienced mental and physical abused from my ex wife. It took me a while to recover from it but I believe that certain energies had stuck with me ever since that. There are ways to heal that.
Nothing is impossible ..........................
...me too re the ex wife !!!!!!
what a mind F###k that was !!!!...25 years
but i know that i was leaving ...albeit too slowly... silly me....a past life of enslavement to that very person ( who is actually quite an good person sans booze)
there ARE ways to heal ...indeed !!!!
and
IT IS POSSIBLE THINGS WILL WORK OUT WELL.
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cool picture and message
i've saved it to post on the United Notions Peacemakers facebook page
http://www.facebook.com/#!/TheUnitedNotions
you might enjoy /become a UN ambassadour for peace and love..( all you need to do is like :))
thank you
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thank you very much Lori
youre the sort of hero my post is referencing
as you heal we all heal
i so appreciate your contribution. here, there, and everywhere
BeLoved
jeeze you seem to have your picky pants on...
fyi...i do experience/remember many lives ...but so what if i didnt!?
revenge doesnt seem to work well in my books .......although it is a common 3d imperitive
i do add that even "annnihalating the opposition" as you suggest might not work well since its the second wrong that inflames and escalates
we agree re law/judiciary..no win for no one there
as for a problem not solved permanently is not a solution.....ummmmm..... yes....but....if you put grease on the sqeeky wheels they go a little further...once greased they may even get you to the garage /home/destination so you can fix it properly there
i thought the idea is clear...dont hold hurt inside...give it back to the agency that gave it to you in the first place.
i have personally found that this action really helps the " once was a victim" get back their personal power and then they can learn to weild the power well
enjoy
thank you for showing us your thinking
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