Dear Reader,
Is it the newest rage on this site "I AM LEAVING THIS SITE" !!!!!!
Every other day i receive mail from my not so friendly unknown friends on this site that they are leaving this site and send good wishes, which they never sent while we were FRIENDS on this platform.
I say not so friendly friends because I was never made to feel like a friend by them as long as they were on this site- the FRIENDSHIP was purely superficial, may be their too much of knowing was a hurdle in communication.
Moreover the one leaving this site come back with new pseudo names and identity to see the reaction generated, their insecurity holds them back from revealing their true identities and they seek attention by sending an unwarranted GOOD BYE MESSAGE to friends with whom they were never really friends as long as they were or rather ARE on this site.
Even if one does not want to visit this site for whatsoever reason, is it necessary for one to wash out the foot prints despite how shallow they might be - just a thought.
SUPERFICIAL because only exchange of copy paste picture message and comments, without sharing even a single original thought, expression or experience.
Mostly the comments made, I find are to prove their self claimed superiority inducing KNOWING ABOUT WHAT IS EVEN REALLY UNKNOWN TO THEM, as one who knows need not prove is my learning so far.
I enjoy reading posts on this site as most of them are nothing more than COPY PASTE from authors site without even proper reading or understanding - SUPERFICIAL ACQUIRED LEARNING, not knowing. BIG WORDS WITH REALLY UNKNOWN MEANING ;-) to prove ME TOO.
Discussions meant to enrich by sharing are usually victims of inflated ego and arrogance.
We have much VOMITTERS of undigested INFORMATION than readers, listeners or debaters.
What restrains from accepting that we are normal HUMANS, is an unanswered question to me.
Is it really of any significance or does it really matter to prove and establish that one is different.
can one really understand the ONENESS by being different rather just believing that he or she is different from others !!!!!!!!!!
LEARN TO ACCEPT WE ARE ONE AND SAME, or else this futile exercise of running away shall become never ending - from one site to another just to prove something which is not.
An envelope posted without an address ;-)
I am learning new definition of friendship on this site.
"STRANGER FRIENDS" may be an oxymoron, but we do have such relation label on this site - would you like to be one, then add me on your not so friendly friends list before you say GOOD BYE.
I have shared my view, right to differ exists.
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Running away from one's problem is a race which one will never win.
dear lori
Sensitive people react to situations, whereas strong and sensible people respond.
That surely does not mean sensitive people are weak or insensible but victims of situation they are.
We must at least try to make them see what lies ahead. Negativity and depression are different condition-let us be aware of same.
Regards
Lalit
Dear Kat,
Negative thoughts due to "reaction" to situations / circumstances.
responding to situation is after proper assessment.
Lalit, what a topic, I’m pretty much a silent member now that all the new age / GFL / thingy is over, am not interested in how or why they may try to keep it alive from this point on. I was always more interested in the Not of this world Spirit that lives inside this avatar I am walking around in as a spiritual site than the rest. So for the most part ACC is not my life never was as it seem it is for those who need that kind of out let.
But you’ve hit on something here that is deep in everyone core looking for something to connect with out here. They say they are looking in, “really” in is not on this site or any other or were your hands can touch. We are not of this world, but many have sure made it an obsession to try to become of it. As long as we are playing with the things of this world or giving it our attention this is our fallacy of our down fall. I personally friended you for the great spirit I saw in you.
Dear john,
An effort to explain the concept of growing together.
lalit
:-) xoxo John