It is interesting observing humans dealing with both, separation and unification. Generally humans fear separation and invent countless ways approaching unification.

Lemma 1: Generally all is one.

Lemma 2: Separateness is necessary for self protection.

Dilemma: Humans often trespass thresholds without being invited.

By separateness humans need room or privacy or distance which is about an arm`s length.

Same with mental regards. Some humans are more or less intusive by creating special mental fields infecting other minds - manipulation, hypnotism, mesmerism.

In order to overcome separateness some intusive inventions are:

# disrespect in letting no or only small room, both bodily and mental;

# using personal items without asking;

# love magick in order to force someone to come back;

# stalking persons;

# soul fusion understood as unification in sex prolongation efforts;

# forcing someone to sex;

# controlling someone secretly;

# playing an important part in someones life without permission;

# forcing someone to believe something;

# using weak ones for whatever reason which is abusing someone;

# exposing someone for whatever reason.

Unification is not achieved by force or whatever, for it is our basic constitution of being, but in the backround. On the other hand we are beings of separateness which is dialectically linked to unification (finitum capax infiniti - the finite is capable of the infinite)...