Might not be the best place to throw this in-to.
My wife lost her interest for me...not love ...at least that is what she says.
She mentioned the word divorce to.
30 years we have A conection and now this...
Problem is i was pointed in her direction to help her by...a higher source.
Seems i lost track of what i was suposed to do, and am now devestated by this news.
Yes we have talked ...yes i have heard her...still she has no clue why this happened.
She asks me for help but then turns it down...
So here i am wondering what to do next.
Mind you that i am not talking about the mere marriage Ego world thing...at least not me.
I am shure i should just let it go...still i have this strange feeling i need to stick around untill
what i was suposed to do ...is done.
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Stick to your gut feeling and remember, it takes two to tango.
Still there seems to be a part of me that knows and keeps going without these ups and downs.
I know people might think i am in denial, but i know i am not.
One can not keep on doing the same things over and over again this is not natural.
Once a person has gone through grieve and pain and sorrow, the lesson is learned .
No need to go this deep again to get the point.
It is the same with love, once one knows it, one does not need to seek it al the time...lesson is learned.
The same with the anger and hate fase...i have been there and done that a long time ago...no need to bring it up again...and i have tried now to do so...it is not there anymore...:))
But like i mentioned before the information is avalable to use as one pleases if one is to play the Ego game and keep on going in the dark al the time.
Katt...time is relative with me, it seems to have lost effect, one moment is not the other.
Sometimes one needs to take action in predicting things in the near future. Even if it was just a hinch from another place.
Nice to see so manny people here with lots of wisdom, it makes me happy, even in the midlle of a storm...:))
My wife is al Ego now, and me i keep doing my thing like a avatar once said..." be in this world but not of this world"...
The most incredibel thing is that we have powers that we could use to change things but we don't use them...untill we are on the same level. It is weird how we do not give power to the Ego once we know.
I could use every trick in the book to make her change...still i wait untill it happens naturaly.
The voice in me tels me to just point her into a direction and let her help herself...so that is what i will do.
After my kundalini experience i have changed a lot in the way i see things, i have no personal gain anymore doing things.
Things seem to be more universal, me being just a instrument for greater good. And i even enjoy it, things seem to flow through me. It is just a pitty that manny people think i still function on Ego level. So they work against me, they get into endless stupid arguments that just leads them to where they took of.
Now about my relationschip with my wife, this will be the last one if it turns out to go wrong.
I have a feeling inside that is the way it should be.
With this is a feeling of time to leave this planet. I will think about it, i have this strange inside law that does not allow me to leave anybody behind.
I will have to look into this a bit more.
It seems we kept contact on a astral level for years ...actualy 28 years. Untill one day we met again on internet through a bunch of conecting e-mails from friends and family.
We recognised eachother on al the stuf i had written down from my astral travels.
Thank you for throwing this into the cauldron as it will help many others who are experiencing similar situations.
When similar happened to me (different circumstances but same devastation), I was not upset it was over but grateful that the relationship happened in the first place but I realised I was holding onto a habit of a lifetime. It takes a lot of courage to release the familiar and seemingly secure, to embrace the new. But there is no real security in what is no longer meaningful. There is more security in the adventurous and exciting, for in movement there is life, and in change there is power.
Parting of the ways normally happen when our own frequency changes but can take a long while for us to realise that until it manifests itself in our own relationships, whether it be affairs, loss of interest, growing apart,etc. Sometimes when change should be made naturally we force things to remain the same, but change will be forced into our lives whether we like it or not. Your relationship might be moving to a different level which if you try and resist will cause you greater pain.
Forgiveness for yourself and your partner is the key. Forgiveness moves through the barrier of resistance. Once forgiveness is spoken, resistance has no power. When we speak with forgiveness we speak our true nature. Truth guided by forgiveness and connected to appreciation powers us to love where we can now heal; healing takes place through the power of love. I have a sense that you will both still be very good friends which very few people can manage after the relationship is over because the ‘ego’ sets in.
Truth, appreciation and love are the same vibration; the same force. The combined forces of truth, appreciation and love power leads us to peace. For you, the truth has come out, you appreciate and thank the divine that she was part of your life for all that time and continue to love her in a wholesome way..you will feel great peace.
I hope you decide to choose peace above all else to prevent any chaos, drama and pain that often accompanies many breakups. With understanding, compassion and contentment, you have your divine wisdom that will lead you to joy you will share with others..
As the Earth releases the pains of our past that have been stored within her for eons of time, each of us will have many opportunities to remember that we are beings of peace. THIS IS ONE OF THOSE TIMES. I believe when we experience the obvious emotional pain, what we also feel is the ‘not so obvious’ pain at cellular level that has been stored within us and the only way to work through it is to truly forgive ourselves and others.
Our emotions are nothing but distorted fears that are stored in the physical body waiting to be expressed so we can experience the moment when our fear can be transformed back to love through truth. It can be easy to deny emotions; not so easy to deny pain (mere emotions not expressed through truth) and at such times, forgiveness is the only doorway to love and that love leads to peace?
Just a thought but perhaps you have already helped her, perhaps not the way you think or want but if your wife feels the strength to create change and you are resisting it..who’s helping who to learn their lessons?? Detachment and letting go are lessons we all have learn when it comes to those who we love.
Cedric, remain in-Spirit and all will be well. Peace & Blessings
It is funny that in my last relationship i had to help her to let me go.
Now this marriage is a bit diff, in the way that the connection is more on a spiritual level than anything else.
We were making great progress untill she changed, now only work and things like her I-phone are important.
I am shure i have already moved on...my mind always seems to drag behind.
But still it is a pitty when someone this evolved falls into mondain traps, that puts one way behind from where they were before.
And then comes the fact that i knew this was going to happen before we moved to PR.
Still i went on with it because there seemed to be no other way, that same voice that told me to take care of her
told me to go there even if it ment going through hardship and pain.
Now i can just watch how thing unfold wether i like it personaly or not.
The pain has lost it's power years ago, not by pushing it inside but letting it show itself and then letting it go.
What is funny is the Ego or mind still thinks it can play the game and i see it jumping up and down and twist around. While my inner self is just as calm as always.
It also does not help that my inner child does not stop teasing my whole self into these ridiculous toughts.
She told me the other day that she does not love herself and it keeps her from loving me.
I can see it in her, that she has lost the joy in her eyes and something came up on her.
I have seen it in other people to manny times.
i can relate to this because before my kundalini experience i used to have the same problem.
Thing is, last time i tried to help someone witht his problem i ended up in hospital totaly sucked drie of my energy.
I know even if it doe snot seem obvious that i am here to help her with this, not for my own gain but because she is going into the wrong direction right now and there is still time to help her see it.
What her decisions will be after that is out of my hands.
Why do i have this urge to help i do not know, it has been with me sinds i can remember.
Anyways thanks for the encouraging words i get here, to work with the invisible powers is not eazy but something inside me can't help it.
At the end of the day the single relationship that is truly central and crucial in a life is the relationship to the self... Of all the people you will know in a lifetime, you are the only one you will never lose so hope you take of yourself in the process. You are right about things unfolding...sometimes inaction is the only action required as a lot can be learnt from watching things unfold at their own pace.
I think there are alot of energies in the universe re-positioning themselves right now, and this may be a result of your paths needing to take a different direction. You are a special person, and I'm sure you have shared some great experiences in the time that you have had together....
Try and keep the bond of friendship with her if that can work for both of you, if you remain freinds then maybe you can help each other through this in a good way.
Don't let this experience ruin your trust in knowing that there are many beings in the universe who love you - and of coarse we are here for you as well :-)
How to trust when all changes every billion second?
I am way over hate and love things...
Still a part of me could just...this pain in the b-Ego thing always around the corner.
It does get one tired at the end...i really have no clue how people managed to live up to 800 years...
I am just in my 40's and i had enough already with al this Ego crap...
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