Just 3 months after my divorce my ex husband is engaged to a girl whos 4 months pregnant with his child. He pretends I dont even exist and that his daughter doesnt exist. He doesnt respond to any of the pictures I send of her and doesnt even call to check on her or anything.
Whats worse is on her facebook she says mean things about me calling me the "crazy ex wife" and saying things like "look at our new car" "were getting married" "look at our new baby sonogram" and they picked the baby boy the name that my ex and I were going to name our baby if we had a son which was "Liam."
I dont understand how he can live on and leave me like this. Im struggling and hes living in glory even though hes evil.
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Sarah you are hurting at the moment. Hating is so negative, you are worth more then that, easy to say I know but think of your daughter and try and turn your feelings around to forgiving your ex and moving on... pour your attention and love into your child that is one blessing that has come out of your experience is a having a lovely daughter, connect with spiritual people and family who care and who will be there for you both. Time is way too short to be caught up in negative emotions.
Sarah, it sounds like you are giving this situation more power than it deserves. This man didn't love you, he doesn't love who he's with now.(Don't blame him, he didn't know how to love people, he didn't know himself). Focusing on something you can't change will only hurt you, it won't change the situation. I had a similar thing happen with myself. I thought about it for a long time, and it hurts worse whenever that time of year comes around. The best thing to do is move on, find better friends and keep a circle of people who simply have a higher expectation of themselves and are happy with their choices. People who hurt others can't be helped, you only draw what they're focusing on into yourself. Do not think about it. Don't dwell on it. It's like boo-boo, you mess with it, and it never heals. The faster you dislodge this thought pattern from your mind (and "the story") the sooner it will be over.
Im sorry to hear the stress. I feel you sistar. people feel like they can't love everyone and think its easier to pick and choose. Its not. It is however of coarse a difficulty at times. Transmute it. over come it. Be happy for yourself the way you are and the fact that you have a daughter that will love you. Things must have a purpose right? Find that purpose and give it to the light. don't let anger consume you. If you must i recommend you channel it. Anger has power and its quantum karmic effects can change much. Remember, Your feelings our your own. Ignore the nasty and just move on. You are Loved and everyone here and now has the ability to accept love. Understand. Co creation . Evolution. Solution.
wow sarah ..i'm feeling your pain and i came here to this aweful feeling to lead you out. why give the demons in your life power...they start in your gut, darken your heart, and torture your brain. you have admitted this and now to correct it. first look at your beautiful baby...focus on only postive thoughts...see only the blessings in your life...my situation is much worse than yours and i only see the positive in this life of challenges. stay out of facebook...in your mind see a new chapter in your life, an exciting change into your future. you are young and your life is just beginning. ..i am interceeding for you...you must connect to feel your mindset change. this thing you need help, you need to connect, CRY and ASK Divine Source to take this darkness, lift it up and give it up ...when it starts to attack your thoughts do this over as many times it takes until the demon leaves you...i am in here with you and all here are sending energy to heal you...laugh everyday...make your baby laugh.....much love
be thankful to him he did you a favor by leaving. your obviously not soulmates so why waste any more time together , you may miss "the one"that way. and in the process you learned some valuable lessons and got some experience under your belt. best of all he left a lil angel thats all yours hands down no argument. send him a thank u note and wish him well is what i would do.
nature, like walks around beaches, maybe even a forest or a swamp in florida
getting in touch with mama nature...................
meditations with papa sky could help, like yoga and sun and star gazing .....................
........from personal experience , prayers help too
only pain inflicted upon uself is your own , Sarah....................................
be in Love and everything else is no longer importantly painful....................................
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