I have a strong feeling that I have A.D.D, because I don't usually hold a conversation for very long before I lose interest and I dose off into my own little world. and also when I'm watching a movie, every single noise and sound distracts me...
I Just recently took an Adherol and I Feel alot more Social than i was before, and it's extremely easy for me to hold a conversation with just about anyone. It doesn't really matter how Intimidatingly beautiful a woman is anymore.
but how good of a Lightworker can I be if I can't be a social person on my own? I don't expect to always have a steady supply of Adherol. :P
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I have similar "struggles?" you mention. I've never been diagnosed w/ ADD (I personally don't buy that diagnosis at all). I find meditation/grounding practices work best for me. I get a little "scatter brained" if I don't... daily. Energy medicine rituals, I strongly suggest, daily. Morning and night, to help become more present/focused. It has become much more necessary for me, this year.
Indeed well said. :P
aww, thank you. My ego feels all warm and fuzzy now. :P
My answer is controversial but here it is. There is no such thing as ADD, ADHD or any of the rest of it. There is NO MEDICAL EVIDENCE to support it and it's stupid anyway. You communicate differently. That's it. Find your center and you'll be fine. Ive read through many of your postings and I see nothing wrong with your communication at all.
Drugs and alcohol are crutches. Start weaning yourself.
lol you might be right, I just spend more time thinking about what I want to say than most people, and most times I end up not saying anything, or getting interrupted, It's been a nuisance to me for as long as I can remember. but i suppose I just need to find people who are willing to take the time to listen to what I want to say.
Thats not a bad thing! I would rather speak to someone who thinks before he speaks than just flies off the handle any day. If you take longer then you take longer. I really don't see this as a bad thing at all. :)
This maybe sound strange, but all you really need is yourself. If you are having problems working on yourself then I understand you, but there really is no "need" to connect with others to do what you came here to do. So try to let go of all expectations of how a "lightworker" should be in order to be successful, you make your own path and what feels right for you IS right for you. :)
that's true. and you know they say when the student is ready the teacher will appear. sometimes i think the world is not ready for lightworkers yet. :P
well said :)
I think some people are natural introverts...and that might make them awkward in social situations. Me, I'm always an extreme of everything, I can be extremely introverted and extremely extroverted. I don't have a problem being social unless I'm really not in a good mood. I think you just have to develop confidence and just be yourself and be true to yourself. The only real thing that can be blocking you is fear. Fear of...whatever. And there's no magic pill or quick fix to cure fear...it's just something that happens over time, as you empower yourself and be true to who you are.
I think you might have A.D.D. if you can't hold a conversation and lose interest quickly and drift away into your own thoughts. And I don't really know what to say to help cure that, just learn to focus..and concentrate, and not think so much. Does that mean you're not a good lightworker....well depends how you look at it, if you look at it in terms of talking and socializing, than in your own mind, you won't be a good lightworker. But there's a ton of other ways to light work...you just have to find what you're called to do, maybe being so social isn't your thing.
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