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  Dehaydne September 13, 2010 at 5:34pm

  where your focus goes your energy flows if you are worried you are not ready to be a father dont put any energy into the sexual desire, yes a catch 22 i know.also semen stores bits of life force energy so even if you decide to have undesirable and boring sex the chances are still hi, the act you are asking for takes whole lot of practice, for some may have 20 kids before they figure it out.Master your intent or get over your fear buddy,
  
  love and light
  but mainly laughter
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  Pichu September 13, 2010 at 4:22am

  Think of a good way? How about using a condom, other than that... yes, we all pray in the end!
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  Daniel September 13, 2010 at 3:23am

  I am a little late on this one, but figured I should add my piece,
  
  It sounds like you are trying to find a spiritual "scape goat" in order to experiences reality with out the lessons learnt from cause and effect.
  
  Hypothetically, if some one had a "spiritual" answer that you thought was correct, do you honestly believe that this would induce a psychological epiphany, that you could translate into spiritual awareness?
  
  There was some bad advice. Pulling out is not a solution because of premature ejaculatory fluid.
  Hormonal Contraceptives play havoc on biology, DNA, and distort biological fields.
  
  If she is flying to be with you, and you can honestly say that you feel a connection deeper then that of normal physical sexual attraction, then go for it. But shame on you if you are fooling your self.
  
  You are obviously not ready to have some sort of "spiritual sex" if you want to call it that, and so it should be treated as a relationship of cause and effect. Learn from it well.
  
  Hormonal Contraceptives are not the end of the world, but I dont recommend them.
  Use a condom, or dont have sex.
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    RJK September 1, 2010 at 1:23am

    is it ? LOL
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  mo August 31, 2010 at 10:36am

  My doctor said I was very fertile, but he was also amazed and it should not have been possible, in his opinion, so there you go expect the unexpected.
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  RJK August 31, 2010 at 4:39am

  *However, this takes many many years of study* ... That's the one .. many years !!
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  Leo August 31, 2010 at 2:36am

  In this day and age, I wouldn't have sex with anyone without taking my own what I consider to be necessary precautions.
  I had the misfortune of contracting an STI (sexually transmitted infection) from my wife. That's when I finally had proof she was cheating, which I knew, I just couldn't prove (now ex wife).
  Strangest thing is I was quite the boy around town when I was younger, slept with any and every female I met, and never caught anything, then to get something out of a 15 year relationship from my wife.
  I rushed out and got checked for aids immediately, told her if I had HIV I would strap her between the tow bar of 2 cars and tear her in half. You better believe it, I was so pissed off, after never once straying during 15 years but constantly being accused of it.
  No way I'd consider sex with anyone without wearing personal protection (including full body armour Haha).
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  RJK August 31, 2010 at 1:23am

  Better be on the safe side buddy and do wot all people do when worried .. use a condom or ask her if she has the so called pill ! If u start thinking there is a spiritual side to getting outta this .. there won't be .. if u really have an urge to connect spiritually - then carnal sex won't come into it and u won't have to worry .... There is such a thing as a deeper connection in regard to sexually energy exchangement ~ look up tantric sex on the net ...............
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  standingbear August 30, 2010 at 11:13pm

  This is question has no answer. Spirituality will always bring forth life.
  
  Sorry Jason
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    Jason > standingbear August 31, 2010 at 12:06am

    For everyone saying this subject is not right for this website, Draco I have the right to speak from my soul and heart, just show's how much you are connected to your heart, talking about sex is not bad and never will be negitive.
    
    So stop it with the crap, this site is for open minded and spiritual people who are a family and are on the spiritual path.
    
    Namaste