When love follows endocrine influences as mother nature has planed, a mind is full of desire to meet someone. It is a natural process forcing sexual polarities finding each other and have sex. Thus a basic life force is flowing as it supposed to flow in order to share itself in joy and wellbeing.
Sharing itself in joy is a fundamental essence of Being with, among and under Being. Being itself is joy, for it emerged from something transforming into something. The joy of Being is to give itself into other modes of Being. And by love Being is finding the other and thus itself. The other is always a mirror of a Being in transformation. Love allows to get mirrored and to serve as mirror. Love is a Yes to community, it is an interpersonal force managing a work to thrive. Love is the streambed Being is moving as it is supposed to move. Love is the basic movement of a Being in order to be alive. And this movement is an inclusive one...
Over the years many have experienced a decline of sexual activities while others trespass the threshold of literally divine sex. The first is not seldom wondering about the lack of temptations which in former times have driven him crazy. The other is wondering on where the hell does it come providing him with such arduous and satisfying activity.
Within the last two years I have spoken with a couple of people complaining the sex lust of their partner. One guy who was happy in the beginning, is now always looking for possibilities to excuse coming home at certain times. She is killing me, he sighed...
Obviously we live in times of gluttony. Not only a working individual is exploited and considered as object which has to be healthy, silent and obedient - the case goes much deeper. An utilitarian system of transforming all into an object thus considering all in categories of value and benefit has no place for unconditional love, love without value or benefits.
The more someone is aware of what is happening, the more disenchanted he becomes. Disenchantment nevertheless is a danger zone. If disenchantment leads to absolute withdrawal from the real world by choosing a kind of mental asylum (AC is a mental asylum too!!!) by thinking it is absolute necessary to flee in it, then love has not fulfilled its mission. And there are countless souls today living in a status of withdrawal...
And they are right. The world appearing to sensitive souls nowadays is cruel and cold. The utilitarian concept of perceiving others - do they benefit myself? - makes people suspicious in all ways. Too much hurts have their souls experienced, too much pain. Everybody has his skeleton in the closet. They are longing for love and sex - and the same time they fear it. Our utilitarian society has created large numbers of singlehood and loneliness...
Complaining is not the right answer to it. It is as it is. When I go out and try to flirt I often experience immense fears being open. Most people do not even look straight into ones eyes. And while you have lived by yourself you have experienced the beauty of it - it is not that bad. And you know you do not need any of this shit you observe in other realtions...
Yes, love in times of enchantment has changed a lot, it has become difficult in diffrent levels. But are those living by themselves doomed to not find anybody to love? Sourrounded by all those people having complicated relationships you don`t want to have? When I was out at New Years Eve, I saw a couple sitting bedides me, and all the time they didn`t speak one word...
I have no solution. But I find it exciting looking ahead and going on. Recently I could see how lovely my neighbors are - over Xmas they invited me for dinner twice. And some lines from AC often make my day. And in the evening I go to bed and enjoy a good sleep. I say: Thank you, God, this was another day, let me be yours...
I`ll send all of you my greetings and good wishes. Keep going....
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Yes, obviously yes...
It is a kind of birth process, and maybe I`m stuck in the birth canal (haha)...