Spiritual Forum

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  jaynew November 30, 2010 at 4:57pm

  Dear Fiend - Nothing can go wrong in this world!! Everything is an experience. You would come to know about this a little later. May be all this would have been well planned in advance before birth for you to get into a situation where you can learn certain lessons. Wait and see and you will surely realize why things happen that way.
  
  Remember, you are never alone in this world! You will never be left alone. You have your runners who would be taking care of you all the time and they would be giving hints/suggestions/alternatives in the form of thought. They will be with you as long as you are on the planet.
  
  Be patient and see what you get onto your plate. A person can not learn much if everything is right for him/her.
  
  Hope things will be alright soon for you..
  
  Sending my heartily blessings to you....
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  Twan November 29, 2010 at 4:34am

  I'd think about getting help from real people - rather than only cyber people, even though some "cyber people." seem to have pretty sound insights. By cyber people I mean people like myself whom you only contact through the internet. I am real in the sense I speak of to my family, friends, colleagues, etc. which gives me a stability and range of human interactions that could not possibly be based on mere electronic relationships. I also have a spiritual guide with whom I am connected by a love bond. The suggestion I make here, that you seek help, perhaps some kind of professional family counseling, is the suggestion my spiritual guide often makes where difficulties are as serious and practical as the ones you describe. God often works through trained professionals, even though they themselves may not realize it.
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  SuzieG November 27, 2010 at 10:38am

  HI Risky,
  
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  Earthwing November 27, 2010 at 10:24am

  I think you should both sit down and have a good talk about what is expected from both of you. I don't think it unreasonable for your mother to expect some help around the home, washing dished etc. If your mom goes out to work, it must be irritating to come home to dirty dishes. If your mother hates he smell of smoke and you bring friends over who smoke in her home, she has a right to be angry. Mutual respect is a wonderful thing.
  
  Maybe you are both at fault, but you need to talk things over and need to work together to make your home a happy one.
  
  I hope it works out for you both
  
  Love and light
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  sistergalaxia1 November 25, 2010 at 10:13pm

  Sometimes-the family you are born too is not your true spiritual family-forces work in the universe to bring about your own personal growth-select a new life direction- you are young-maybe it is time to leave the nest and find a more fruitful and peaceful exsistence. Start to consider your career. Aim to excel in life
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  Leo November 23, 2010 at 10:46pm

  I got sick of being beaten by a drunken father and ran away from home at 11. Unfortunately, that wasn't the end of the abuse cycle as other things happen to little boys living on the street, so I feel for you, I've had a shitty life.
  I have a few times found myself homeless, and survived, believing I'm a much stronger person for my experiences, I know I'm a heck of a lot tougher, and can confront anyone and walk away, though I've left my violent past behind.
  
  I would highly recommend staying with your grandmother and finishing school if possible, then once you have completed your schooling, try finding suitable employment, then you can be truly self sufficient.
  It sounds like you are still young, and without a reasonable education, employment is hard to find.
  
  Good luck, I wish you all the best in being able to maintain a sense of sanity, and in not putting yourself in the wrong situations.
  
  I too dream of living among the stars, but I'm not prepared to leave just yet, still have to finish raising my son who is now 16.

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  JunieStar November 23, 2010 at 8:31pm

  Hi,
  
  I'm sorry but I dont agree with all the other posters. Your mother is NOT toxic. She is just living in the real world. And sometimes there are responsibilities that people have to do throughout the day. We're all here because we want to discover our spirituality. Well lets then help others do the same. Your mom probably needs help. And since you're thinking about "Why am I here on this earth?" "What's my purpose"? Etc., think about this... could it possibly be that you're here to help YOUR MOTHER.? And I dont' mean by cleaning the dishes, I mean by listening to her and being there for HER. Not having to always think that SHE is the one that has go GIVE GIVE GIVE. And no, I don't have any kids yet, but I have a mother and I know that it's incredibly rewarding to help the ones that helped you at some point.
  
  My suggestion for you is to look into Homeopathy, it's a great healing tool. If you do manage to do this, and give this to your mom, she will feel much better, it will clear her mind, calm her emotions and help her realize that she perhaps was too harsh to shower you with all the problems of the world. And you as well if you take homeopathy in time will realize that you don't have to feel that way and can open up to better experiences.
  
  Don't wallow in this pitty, help yourself and your mom.
  
  Good luck!
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  The ruminative Anna November 23, 2010 at 6:47pm

  When I read this is like reading about my dad...he is just like that.
  I'm 17,at school I'm a great student and I have good results I try my best at every thing,but he always finds something to yell about.He thinks that I'm not interested in any thing normal that I'm a failure,abnormally naive and he always threatens me that he'll throw me out of home.In fact he did that two times and I always came back,that time I was sleeping at my grandparents place,at my friends place,it was really difficult for me.He tells me that I have no future he insults me every time he can and most of the time he is so negative,he makes me cry...I know that everything isn't like that and I know that he doesn't understand my ways and that's why I'm not mad at him.Every time I can I try to calm him down and make him happy and proud.Before I just wanted to leave him forever and live on my own but i found out that that wasn't a solution and that I can run away from problems.
  Your mother is not a bad person...you have to understand her,maybe he acts like that because she is not happy and she has problems try to help her and understand her talk to her don't give up on her...she needs love that will make her a better person.This is just a period that you have to live through it.
  Don't feel bad and don't lose hope.I didn't and it was awfully bad.
  
  Sending you lots of LOVE and LIGHT Anna.
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  dennis November 23, 2010 at 6:08pm

  OK risky, is your breaking the rules due to some kind of abuse? I mean are you being physically, mentally or sexually abused? and is that why you break the rules? If you have just been spoiled by her, and now she expects you to change and become responsible, thats her fault. But if your being abused somehow, thats different. Being asked to wash dishes, pick up clothes, no smoking in the house, IS NOT ABUSE. But if she spoiled you before puberty as a child, when you couldnt do none of these things anyway, if she spoiled you, then you will see this abuse. But its not.
  
  Your not really coming clean here, so far it seems you just want attetion, by saying what you said above, with no more details, it comes off as a spoiled rotten kid, seeking attention. If thats the case, you cannot count on your mom, who spoiled you, to fix the problem. You have to fix it yourself now. Its done by INTENT and PASSION. DO you really want to grow up? Or stay SPOILED. Only you can change it now, your past puberty, and the one who spoiled you isnt capable of seeeing what they did. (if this is the case)????????????????????????????
  
  If your being physically or sexually abused, you need to tell us, and quit playing games dude. No matter what, you have to become responsible and grw up as an adult. Throw the spoiled side in the trash can, and pray for forgivness for whoever did that to you. Look to God and Jesus, the way they walk; and you'll see where the path of responsibility is...peace
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    Amelia > dennis November 24, 2010 at 3:22am

    Wham bam, thank you ma'am!