I hope this helps you find your way.

WARNING:
Words cannot be used to describe that which is only understandable in thought form and do it justice.

A little secret...
Reality is as it is...a holographic mental game for a consciousness that wants to understand itself. I have thrown "facts" up here but please DO realize words are just meaningless symbols with an attached agenda. If one TRULY wants to evolve to anything close to ones full potential my suggestion is to step outside ones box and realize there truly is no box, then submerge oneself in the universe within. What one perceives is a construct of ones own imagination based on their "beliefs" dictated to them through the programming received throughout their entire life.

The grass is not greener on the other side because grass is anything but green. One sees green because that is the energy spectrum rejected by the grass not because it is a part of the grass. When one looks for something with the intent of finding something, the nature of conscious manifestation will produce what one intends to find. When this realization comes to fruition true growth will begin.

The whole concept of duality in my eyes is a misunderstood universal law. The perception of two opposites is a complete illusion. Opposites are identical in nature but different in degree making them one in the same.
Example: Do we not agree a thermometer measures our perception of hot and cold? Now, I must ask where does cold end and hot begin? The duality is the idea of hot and cold being separate when in reality they are nothing but ways for us to describe two separate vibrational characteristics of the same force...temperature. There is no dual nature to temperature, it just is.
The duality comes when we add a perceived attribute to the vibration we are trying to recognize. We can vibrate at a slow rate which causes density to manifest such as the state of matter exists or in the case of emotions, anger and hatred, or we can raise the frequency until it achieves such a resonance as to transcend all states within the laws of dimensionality and rejoin creator in the form of unconditional love and understanding of all that is.
Example: When a wheel spins very slowly there isn't much happening to our understanding but as it spins faster the vibrational frequency also raises causing a low hum. As it picks up vibrational momentum the pitch changes through the whole audio spectrum. With intensifying degrees of vibration there is a perception of rising degrees of heat followed further by a dull reddish color that builds through the color spectrum on into x ray and beyond until the vibration is so high it blinks out of existence within this dimension. If this rate of vibration were to keep increasing it would eventually become so high it would rejoin the creator force we call God, Spirit etc.

Always remember...experience everything with an open mind and heart. The duality of good and evil is a construct of our own imagination and two varying degrees of the same force...LOVE.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=dbh5l0b2-0o

https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=o0gBoV0ygJc

https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=KLRhhheOdGY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=6Qp6NTlu5DM

http://www.rawilsonfans.com/downloads/prometheus.pdf

http://www.ichoosetoheal.com/downloads/the-power-of-your-subconscious-mind.pdf

http://www.hermetics.org/pdf/kybalion.pdf

http://thefreedomofchoice.com/

Love and light my family of my self!!