Victimized

One of the questions that arises quite naturally when one is examining their state of self-perception and recognizing contrary attitude towards their own peace is ......"Why is it that I justify my short comings through others or blame others for whatever it is in my life that I do not like about myself?" From a young age we have been challenged with self-perception / natural character, usually in our own home due to our less than positive environment. Seeing that a perfect environment would make the point of being on earth redundant we can say all challenges we face in home environments on a relative scale are lessons to grow and lean from. It would then be a sensible deduction that the more loving and spiritually (positive energy conscious) a home environment, the better the odds are at ourselves being able to recognize our natural character (Intonations) thus enabling us to flow more naturally in interaction with society or ourselves in moments of occurrence. The problem that arises is that society is built upon the fears of our weaknesses rather than our love of our strengths thus we must compromise ourselves in behaviors whenever we let our fears win over our common sense.  Learning to be in moments positively accepting allows us to adjust and balance in all occurrence which perpetuates our focus on continual self growth at a healthy pace that can fluctuate or be flexible while adjusting to outside (interactive) influence. We can be comfortable with our peaceful striving. In short, victimized is the way to be in today's society.