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  Starflower March 27, 2010 at 4:59pm

  This really beautiful, my friend. I had always thought that what one perceives as their reality should be a gauge, but the truth is that our relationships are our spiritual path. I find everyday, in every way, everything I see both within and without is becoming more one.
  I am my yes =)
  

  
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  Merryn February 22, 2010 at 9:11am

  Just been thinking some more about the whole falling in love thing, and I reckon that a lot of unnecessary heartache is caused by our conditioning. Practically from birth we are programmed to believe that once we find 'the one', we will live happily ever after. Fairy tales, novels, movies, the lot. And so we are all hanging out to find 'the one', and when we think we finally have, BAM, all those brain chemicals and hormones kick in, and we are on a natural high, thinking that now all our dreams will come true and we too will live happily ever after. And when things don't live up to our programmed high expectations, we come crashing down. Ouch.
  
  And for those of us who are slow learners, we do it all over again when we meet the next one we think might be 'the one'.....
  
  Like I said, I'm not planning on falling in love again, and I think it does actually come down to making a decision about it. You can go along with the illusion to spice up life a little, but the key is to know that it's an illusion - no-one else can meet our needs for us or make us happy.
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    3rfl3nfqndi4s > Merryn March 27, 2010 at 1:58pm

    Well, Justin, I would say from my own experience that one of 2 things will happen. When one Loves oneself, they either attract Loving people, or "repel" those who are not Loving. Since like attracts like, the more you Love yourself the more Loving people you will attract. However, the one exception to this is also that the more you Love yourself, the more you will be able to make choices of companions, and this may include separating from ones who have been in your space for awhile.
    
    What I have discovered about Loving myself is that I am a sovereign citizen of the Omniverse.....which is totally freeing and enables me to make choices in all areas of this Life experience.
    
    I hope this helps. It's very difficult to intellectualize Spiritual matters, but, the Heart knows.
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    3rfl3nfqndi4s > Merryn March 11, 2010 at 8:32pm

    I am bringing this forward for a referral for a good friend. It had gone to the "cemetary for old posts". lol
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  Jazmin February 22, 2010 at 5:50am

  
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  Jazmin February 22, 2010 at 2:08am

  
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    Merryn > Jazmin February 22, 2010 at 8:18am

    HAAAAAAAhahahahaha! Well I'm glad we have moved on in some ways....!
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  3rfl3nfqndi4s February 12, 2010 at 10:51pm

  My pleasure to share with you, sister/friend. I've learned throughout this incarnation that one can be very firm in setting boundaries without being nasty about it......firm resolve.....firm voice.....with back up when necessary.
  
  Yes, it is an amazing marriage we have. I practiced until I got it right. LOL
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    3rfl3nfqndi4s > 3rfl3nfqndi4s February 16, 2010 at 5:44pm

    I want to sincerely thank you all for your contributions to this thread. It never ceases to amaze me the diversity of viewpoints available on various subjects, which to me is very thought-provoking and expansive to growth. I Love the Spirit of Unity which prevails here and the respect shown to others whether there is agreement or not. As I will continue to say, we can disagree without being disagreeable.
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  Lily February 11, 2010 at 8:34pm

  Very Nice Share Little Feather :) ~ HOW TRUE !!!
  Hugs and Love to YOU for Sharing this and May All Our Cups Runneth Over so that We May ALL JUST SWIM
  IN LOVE Be IN LOVE and FEEL LOVE....:0)))) !!!!