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  Spaceman February 10, 2013 at 8:55pm

  Thanks for your input devi
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  Peter Panayiotis Karanikas February 10, 2013 at 4:23pm

  It is in the syntax of the communication where you discover thought process.

  And emotional intent.

  The language of syntax is very simple.

  there are a number of linguistic principles that are always true. And so when you look at syntax you cut throught the subterfuge of the story.

  syntax is the language of eloquence.

  And it is also the language of the unconscious  the tidier your syntax is, the congruent, and coherent you sound.

  this is why I believe that the silent treatment should be used as a last resort in conflict resolution. Because when you are fluent in syntax, every sentence that is uttered creates a clearer picture of how that person thinks, and why they say what they say. 

  t thus gives you the behavioural flexibility you need to better dance with language.

  How do you become fluent in the language of syntax?

  address your fears

  and then, if you treat your conscious mind to an NLP course so that it can learn about syntax, your words can stat to manipulate time and space in profound ways.

  Abracadabra..

  I create what I speak.
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    Spaceman > Peter Panayiotis Karanikas February 10, 2013 at 5:48pm

    The right amount of words is an individual choice.. but whatever words are used need to be affective.

    The intent of the words and the speaker also has a profound affect on the power of the words

    to help or to hurt.

     
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    Spaceman > Peter Panayiotis Karanikas February 10, 2013 at 4:33pm

    

    Simple bija--- Jewels-- sounds can be very affective.....
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  Spaceman February 10, 2013 at 3:27pm

  I was pondering the fact how difficult it is to express feeling with words

  there needs to be a higher type of communication ..

  that the words often get jumbled and confused in the translation from one brain to another...
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    Peter Panayiotis Karanikas > Spaceman February 10, 2013 at 4:04pm

    what you are describing is what happens when 2 dark (as in not light. not demonic), portions of duality thry to communicate with each other.

    it is for the dark regions of our conscious  that we model and create behaviours. Because we cannot accurately see what is going on there. 

    and so we enforce that behaviour because whilst it isn't fantastic, it is a known quantity.

    and it gives us a safe, predictable, result.

    It services our fear of the dark.

    so when someone has conviction in their duality, and you try converse with them, you don't have the behavioral; flexibility to "roll with each others punches".

    consciously at least.

    the other problem we have s we tend to fill in the blanks we have of other peoples lives with our interpretation of what their life is.

    And it is inevitably, incorrect.

    As if that isn't bad enough, we then get the shits with them when their life doesn't conform to our interpretaion of it. Hmmm.

    There is a wonderful hypnotic intervention called neuro relationship therapy which addresses and organizes the way we unconsciously deal with relationships.

    Because when all is said and done, I AM not talking to you.

    I AM talking to the version of you that I have created. the version of you that is just like me.

    However, when I AM talks with I AM, there can  be no confusion.

    Because there is no dark.
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      Spaceman > Peter Panayiotis Karanikas February 10, 2013 at 9:05pm

      Thanks peter for your contribution to this discussion
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  Peter Panayiotis Karanikas February 10, 2013 at 2:51pm

  and yes, i realize that you said juggling, not judging.
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  Peter Panayiotis Karanikas February 10, 2013 at 2:50pm

  p.s, anyone who's had sex after, (during :) an argument, knows this to be true.
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  Peter Panayiotis Karanikas February 10, 2013 at 2:48pm

  Namaste.