Have you ever made an assumption only to find out later that you were wrong?
Assumption is a critical and basic survival instinct of a human. This might hold true in all aspects other than relationships. In the past, humans had to assume a lot of things in order to survive.
Just look at this saying: Assume the Worst, Hope for the Best.
In our world we can only see what people tend to show. As we all have heard “Never judge a book by its cover”; this can be applied to the humans in general. People tend to be completely different than what they appear to be.
If ever there is a misunderstanding between you and another person, assuming things might just about send you crashing through the wrong way.
However what about the 'feeling' or 'gut feeling'
Learning to differentiate between your gut feelings and assumptions is in some way essential
A gut feeling is something you heart says, you know and feel that something is not right. These feelings should not be ignored and most of the time you are right. Alternatively, assumptions are where you just assume that something is not right by the events that have occurred without fully investigating the facts right before your nose.
-Follow your gut feelings and never assume when dealing with other humans.
Assumptions Stifle Growth and Development
If you dismiss ideas before learning about them or trying it out for yourself, you will miss many chances to become a better person.
Assumptions Hinder Creativity
Assumptions hinder our creative output. When we make assumptions, we place limits on our imagination and actions. We shut off many possibilities to come up with something new. Due to our assumptions, our solutions are hardly novel. What we end up doing is merely to repackage existing ideas. Instead of breaking new ground, we remain in our comfort zone and have difficulty coming up with fresh ideas.
Assumptions Cause Errors in Action and Judgment
When we make the wrong assumptions, we view events from a flawed perspective. As such, we are bound to make errors in our actions and judgment. In the worst-case scenario, we can end up causing harm to others or ourselves.
Assumptions Cause Misunderstandings
Unless we make an effort to know people better, we could easily get the wrong idea about anyone, because of our assumptions - which is probably 90% of the time
Negative Underlying Assumptions
Cognitive theory (Beck, 1979, 1995) posits that the association
between a situation and emotional distress is mediated by cogni-
tive interpretation of the situation. It is proposed that early life
stress leads to the development of core beliefs of the self as
unlovable or incompetent, which in turn predisposes the individual
to experience thinking errors in the context of day-to-day stressors
(Beck, 1979, 1995). For example, a young adult who was repeat-
edly called “lazy” and “stupid” by a primary caregiver may be
more likely to endorse a core belief of incompetence and think “I
will never get this right,” during an academic task. Core beliefs
and situational automatic thoughts are proposed to be mediated by
“intermediate beliefs” (Beck, 1995) that tend to take the form of
“if, then” statements (e.g., “If I do not do everything perfectly, it
means that I am stupid”). As long as the individual is able to meet
the conditions necessary for self-acceptance, negative automatic
thoughts may be kept at bay. Thus, the more rigid the conditions
associated with intermediate beliefs, the more likely the develop-
ment of extreme compensatory strategies (e.g., perfectionism) and
psychopathology.
Intermediate beliefs are often referred to in the literature as both
“dysfunctional attitudes” (Weissman & Beck, 1978) and “negative
underlying assumptions” (NUAs; Beck, 1979). We prefer the latter
as we believe that even very negative attitudes may be quite
adaptive in the face of ongoing trauma. For example, a child’s
rigid belief, “If I make a mistake, I am worthless,” may be
functional in the case of ongoing abuse occurring whenever the
child makes a mistake.
source: http://hanofharmony.com
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it sure is ... ;))
... ;)) good one Sylvain ... ;)
Fear is pressure, your magnetic fields are spinning too fast now. My voice is unsettling to you. There's pressure located in your chest, so it's released as nervous laugh.
Listen please, there's no need to be afraid near your throat, nor your eyes.
Slow down. And look within, that's pressure near your stomach, release yourself. You're scared because you can't resonate within my information pattern.
So take a deep breathe now, we're different. Allow yourself to feel uncomfortable. You're just starting this journey. Please, no shields on your stomach.
Now, more close, if you so desire.
My information won't resonate within your system now, because we are far away from each other.
Watch inside each center, when there's pressure. Keep watching, don't run away, it's spinning too fast it's harming for your emotional health, so no information can't be readed properly, an so it burst out as nervous laugh, in your case, from the expression center located on your throat.
Don't bent over, re-aling yourself, and watch inside, it will burn, don't close the center you're watching over. Keep looking at it. It burns indeed. That burning sensation is the natural reaction within two or more magnetic fields friction, when re-aligning your magnetic spin, within each's center(chakra) on your light body.
It's a natural process, while "watching inside" Meaning it has lost its balance. When you can't understand something, naturally your centers start to spin faster, or slower, trying to achieve the current information speed of frequency. Within higher forms of information (Sometimes, due to our evolutive process, one being isn't able to spin as fast as the other) So this distortion speeds up out of control, and the information(For example my message) is locked in within yourself, as karmic experience. You're on the now(present) but your light body is in the past, still trying to decipher such information, because is imprisioned within your magnetic fields, out of control, out of balance.
So you suffer, you're not living the now, and frequency of mind suffers as well. You're leaving in the past now, If you haven't ran away from me already, that is.
So, please, watch inside. Give yourself space, and watch till the burning sensation is gone. You'll realize everything is in balance now. Taking a deep breathe without any burning sensation along your light body.
It shows up in your "emotes" even. You can't express yourself entirely, now. So you need another way. There is no sincerity. Mostly shields.
You're still child for me. It doesn't matter your reactions, your age, your gender, your nationality, your knowledge. You think you can hide, and I'll close one, like no seeing you, while still smiling. I feel the every reason behind every emotional reaction.
You're nervous and insecure, and so you need to put a division within oneness. Nobody is blaming you, nor laughing at you. I promise, because I can feel it everything.
For us, Love is not something that can be put in words or emotes. It doesn't fit, hahaha. Now that's sincere laughter.
And follow your path. In a world without fear, there is no need to remind that each vision is an experience of many, on its own. Isn't it?
I'll never hurt any of you intentionally. This is mainly for earthlings.
A basic fear-based reaction. Product from the Veil.
Within this place there's some certain "lack" connectivity with our inner wisdom, sometimes.
Within this perceptive lack(Diminished perception) we start identifying the subject(Frequency patterns) based on previous stored experiences(Life experiences)
A positive charged being(Mostly positive life experiences) will assume the best in most cases, under lose of connectivity(Inner perception-Wisdom loss)
A negative charged being(Mostly negative life experiences) will assume the worst in most cases, under lose of connectivity(Inner perception-Wisdom loss)
If you listen up closely to your Heart(Heart chakra) there it's your truth(Cosmic tune) So, treat it well(Healthy behavioural patterns-self esteem-meditation-non killed foods-balanced relationships-etc)
It often closes up in presence of negative frequency(harmful, fear-based behavioural patterns)
Take care.
are you taking to me Suiris ... ;) or just in general? ...
Luke, yes i didn't write it, but then again there is a source at the bottom ... ;)) so i assume that you saw it ... ;))
perhaps those who have been hurt a lot, put down a lot ... assumption is just another way to get all defensive, you know assume the worse, or even 'trust issues as well' - what a baggage ... ;)) i got a few of my own ... ;))
Thanks Luke ;))
you hear those horror stories about parents who assume the other has the child but neither of them do.....
hi turtles ... ;)) how have you been?
i think our life is 'paradox' ... damn if we do and damn if we don't ... ;))
I am good Ara! thanks for asking..
paradox for real.....
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