How are you handling being yourself, open and honest towards other non spiritual 3d people, that ignore you and reject you because of it? you go ahead and stand up for yourself and they react with icy silence and maybe not even return your emails. How do you handle that? is that something you experience alot? I was talking to my cousin-i thought- and thought that I would recieve some information concerning our childhood experiences. she seemed ok, but now I dont hear a word,after being open and honest with her about things. I also see that shes friend at face book(this is going on)with a past bully of mine, that treated me verybadly and I got flashback big time discovering it and see the others face again, sitting and shaking of fear of what they could- la-la-la-you know. Even if its probably not likely they talk that often as many friends my cousin has. I think my cousin intend to use me for holidays since we dont live in same country. Now Im starting to wondering whats wrong ? wtf have I done wrong? (is my cousin planning evil towards me or what? god forbid she pass any information) it was her, that opened up and started to talk about my childhood, and I told her whats happened,since she talked some about it. After that I get silenct treatment about it and pretending as it never happened. After 2nd email I dont get anything,not even a reply. I got lies so far.
Another lady of same faith has more or less done the same number to me too. I have done nothing to none of those. (the only thing I did was putting my foot down, when my cousin didnt replied to me)
and yet another good friend cant respect my wish to not engage in talking about going after her stalkers on man hunt,since its negative in high degree. Ive said it 3 times and now Ive put my foot down.
anyone with abilites, whats this all about? I think Im clouded to see atm.
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Well trust me, I understand all too well how frustrating it can be. Sometimes people just don't want to learn. It makes you think ''God what is wrong with you!'' At some level, they aren't ready yet. Their minds and their hearts aren't open enough for higher truths. My fault is, I'm a little too persistent, I don't give up easy, and it crosses a line where it becomes forced. I'm still working on that. I'm still working on being patient, and calm, and understanding, and loving, at all times. But it's hard, especially when people are so quick to go ego on you. But like everything, it is a test of our spiritual discipline, our love and understanding. One of these days, they will get it, and then they will come to you and say, I should have listened to you. That day is coming for all of us.
So don't be disheartened if people don't get it. They will, in their own time. Don't make the mistake I make too often, and push it on them and say ''Come on, wake up!'' Kel told me something yesterday that is sticking with me, she said ''You don't have to save the world, just work on yourself!'' and that is true. I still think it is a duty of ours, as lightworkers, to try and get out there and teach people, but like many wise people here have told you, you can just plant the seed, and walk away. If they don't get it, well, it isn't your issue. If they chide you, it isn't your issue. We shouldn't let other peoples baggage become our own.
Most baggage people carry around with them, is the baggage other people place on them. With their expectations and attitudes. And if we don't live up to their expectations and attitudes, we feel bad about it. Feel less, worthless, not good enough. Well, part of soul growth is to learn to be true to ourselves, at all times. Learning to stay true to our value, our self worth, our self love and respect. Stay true to our truth, our knowledge, our love, stay true to who we are. Other people don't get it, but they will one day. Until then, just plant the seed, and let it go. That's what I'm trying to do, at least.
Kel is absolutely right,
I am a man of few words,
Yes, I do have feelings, but I also learned not to tie etheric strings that drain my energies,
We can't save the whole world as we perceive it would be best for our egos,
not gonna happen,
is that gonna hurt my feelings, nah...what a waste of time that is..been there , done that..
As James says, plant a seed, it will find it's way,
What I add to that, let free will do it's job.
there's a purpose we cannot see most of the time here.
Peace all,
Steve
Wisdom...
If Someone offers You a gift of their insult,and You (refuse) to accept them,They obviously still belong to the original owner, then why, would You ever (choose) to be upset or angry over something that belongs to someone else......
Peace and Love,
Steve
Hello,
I read your post but have not read any of the other replies yet but wanted to say that you will experience this with many people who have not started to awaken. Please don't take it as there is something wrong with you. Only that others are not on the same vibrational level as you and you will continue to experience this with more and more people as you vibrate even higher and start to hold even more light. Some just aren't ready. But remember, you raise other's vibrations just by being around you, you do not even need to say anything. I have found that I can test the waters with some people and see if they are "open" to conversations and if they are not, I do not push my opinions or thoughts further but retreat on the subjects. We have made a huge sacrifice coming here us lightworkers, we all knew that the road may be lonely at times but we agreed nonetheless. Our role is to help others wake up but we can't force them to, only we can be examples and shine our light and love. We have to respect the universal laws and not impose our beliefs, if we push something it is coming from our ego and that is wrong. We have to just "be the light" just like the human angels we are, we have to respect other's free will. When they are ready they will know who to come to. Just keep shining!
well if you had been old enough in the 70´ies, nobody wouldve thought you were strange among alot of ppl.. yes,I so agree war and murder is wrong, and can never be justified. Its against the laws of balance and Creation.
thank you for all beautiful replies you warm my heart. It makes me sad that there are so few that respect eachother nowadays. I really had hoped for better by those people so they hurt me. I know I shouldnt but I had reasonable reasons to. Anybody but them.. I have to detach and cut them off, theres really no other choice. I would dishonor my Spirit within if I continued accept disrespect. But its sooo sad! Im gonna be more careful.
It seems to me that people CANT take, if you are open and honest. If you show you have nothing to hide, so you talk your heart out.
Yes, And that is what I stated during the conversation at my neighbors. We are all ONE! It sure is nice to have people like you to talk too, I have no one close to talk with, many think its a bit weird the things I say, my family thinks I have changed, but I haven't, I am the same as always. I believe in Love and Peace and Harmony. I know I am not alone, and thank you for saying so. Bless You James Ryan. Have a wonderful weekend.
This only happened two weeks ago, so it's still fresh in my mine, but I have stayed strong and always will.
Yes, just recently I stated or discussed my opinion of war with a close friend and neighbor and I got knocked to the ground and injured. My heart was hurt the most. I was told by the small group that there will always be WAR! It was very sad. I just said I never believed in war ever since I was a little girl and I said I was sorry if I offended someone. Needless to say, I do not associate with them anymore. My purpose was not to offend anyone only to discuss my beliefs. I do pray for them, thou I only wish for the day we can all be ONE! Love and Light to all!
It's up to us, to make connections with others, and show them some light... ;-)
We have to be the ones that set an example, and show compassion, the more good energy we spread upon the planet, the better this reality will become. Each person on this planet has the ability to "Ascend" and advance spiritually, intellectually, and evolutionarily.
We can learn something from everyone on this planet, 1-D, 2-D, 3-D, 7-D.... :)
Lighten up, try and find the Joy in this Existance. It's a wonder to behold! :-)
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