when pets die and guilt.

My friend recently lost her dog. Today I lost my goldfish, it would be natural to think that it was a bigger loss to lose the dog - but I'm crying my eyes out as well!  And everyone tells me to relax, that's its just a goldfish, but I actually felt a connection with the fish, oddly as it sounds. Even stranger, I dreamt that it died this night, but it felt more of an 'alarm' disturbing the real dream.

It had been in a muddy bowl for a while, I kept postponing the cleaning of the bowl. And today, the very day I bring the bowl to clean it by the sink - it lays there dead :( I feel its all my fault. The fish is free now, but I feel so bad for 'killing it slowly'. I should have cleaned the bowl weeks ago. I can't get over the guilt, and I realise its just a goldfish.

I just wonder if any of you had lost a pet that made an impact on your life, how do you cope- and how does one cope with guilt?

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  • I extend love & light to our departed pets. I do felt such loss even though I don't keep any pets. Katrine, dogs and gold fish are actually souls embodied into physical bodies to make their experience as animals, just like our souls embodied as humans to make human experience. All souls are connected and that is why we have a strong connection with our pets. Remember, we souls are one and from one cosmic central consiousness we call existence or God. We also have experience our life as animals like our pets before and that's why it has connected effects in our lives.

    Feeling the loss of our beloved pets is part of our experiences. All we can do is hope they will incarnate into a better world with better life. Who knows, maybe in our future incarnations, their soul and our soul might meet together again.
  • im sorry...for this...
    ...now there is no point to feel guilt...what is done is done, and cant change.....
    ... next time, u should know better..to take better care of it at least...

    i have lost cats too, and the feeling is very heavy and sad... those who have pets, can understand that....
    ...it passes only with time....
    take care...
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