I really ask myself this.
I went back to watch some blogs from the time I first came on this site.
It was peaceful!
Not that people agreed with everything somebody else was putting here, but there was a silent peace.
After a few months all changed.
And as I look what now is going on here on the site it makes me sad at times.
And it is not easy to keep your own vibration at the level it normaly is.
I see other people struggle the same as I do.
People who have been bullied, called names, attacked etc.
Then it is not easy to stay nice and you feel a need to defend yourself.
And what happens? You are dragged into a lower vibration where you don't want to be and looking at yourself and don't even recognize yourself anymore.
I see and feel it happens to me and a lot of other members here on the site.
Also find it very strange that people with whom everything was peaceful feel the need to being very unkind, because they have friends who do not like me.
Do you recognize that too here? It is not being neutral.
The meaning of our lifes in this time is to go from the 3th to the 5th dimension. At least I feel it is the meaning.
Do you think this will happen the way we treat others here?
So please tell here what you feel about this and how you would like it to be!
And for you all to know. This discussion is not ment to bully, attack or calling other people names.
Thank you.
Love Anja
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Hello dear heart,
What we see in these posts is only a reflection of ourselves. Sometimes we are forced to look at things we are not quite ready to face within and that is because we are each and every one of us at a different place spiritually in our evolution, but we are all part of a grander wholeness and all of us are ultimately on the same path to ever greaterness. When we see another soul and/or read another post/blog from another person, we see ourselves -NOT literally, but ABSOLUTELY an energetic and vibrational representation of ourselves. With that said, we are each and every one of us responsible for our own contribution to the collective in what we decide to co-create. We are responsible for what we say and what we do. We are not responsible for what others say and do in their own path of evolution. We each and every one of us have our own illusion that we are often struggling to let go of on our path out of duality. There is only one truth, and even as I speak/write here, I know I too am speaking/writing from a place of duality as well, because so long as we are incarnate in the 3rd and 4th dimensions, we still retain this duality. I'm not saying I have the perfect answer, but what I AM saying is that THE ONLY TRUE RIGHT ANSWER IS FOUND WITHIN each and every one of our OWN INDIVIDUAL HEARTS. With that said, when we read something we do not resonate with, it is our responsibility as way-showers to respond in kindness and compassion -Or NOT at all. This is how we contribute to the collective raising of vibrations, whether it be for Gaia directly, for another soul and/or humanity alike, or for our own personal hearts and perspective. On the other side of the coin, it is important to realize that when people are responding in lower vibrations to what they are perceiving, it is their own struggle within their own hearts to discern whatever it is they are working through and even though it may seem as though it is a direct attack towards yourself, it is only a response to what they see energetically and/or vibrationally and it has absolutely nothing to do with yourself and everything to do with their very own conflicts within. So I say again, when someone speaks in a derogatory manner towards you, it is so very important to realize that they are only working through a conflict within themselves, whether they are denying a particular lesson, or in the process of working through said lesson, it is their lesson and theirs alone.
So when you read anything, or see anyone, whether their statements are derogatory or pleasant, remember their statements and actions have ONLY to do with their own personal evolution and growth and it is your responsibility to choose whether you wish to contribute to all things of love and joy and bliss and beauty and peace and harmony, or to contribute vibrationally and energetically in conflict of those things. It is each and every one of our personal responsibility to choose to respond in kindness and compassion. It is our own choice to choose happiness and beyond our happiness, we can choose to have the faith that our happiness will continue beyond one moment to the next.
However, any uneasiness that arises from what YOU perceive in other souls or others writings is part of you and you alone. The process of moving forward in the face of fear is not about letting it go of your fears and all about transmuting these fears then to faith. When you are discarding your fear, setting it aside, or letting it go, you are discarding a piece of yourself -a piece of your soul. The path to ascension is all about gathering ALL THAT YOU ARE, whether transmuting your fears to faith, or simply reclaiming stagnant energy of past lives, it is all about retaining, reclaiming and gathering the wholeness that you are as a cosmic being.
I hope this helps to understand how to contribute to the wholeness that we all are together, to reclaiming the wholeness that you are individually and to allow those lower vibrational frequencies within the responses of other individuals to fade away as it is their own responsibility to transmute and theirs alone! The best thing you can do is to offer unconditional love and a compassionate response to their cries for help, but there is a fine line between discerning between a cry for help and an attack and that is why I say the best response is to starve the negative energy of fuel until it fades as even offering assistance to another dear heart in this state can lead to fueling the fire.
..love Jacob
good.. ok.. well thumbs up Anja..
best wishes..
yes there is also the nazi pehnom too, where no matter what once nazi is brought into any online debate it will be over very shortly.
godwin's law or something like that. i googled too much today youll have to check it yourself lol
Got to love how other people go our right and condemn others to "lower vibration" as if they themselves know anything about it or have the right to judge another. Judge yourselves...
Anja .. I am not forcing anything on you.. Im suggesting you forgive, if you cannot, then thats whatever it is... its only a suggestion for you.. or an idea for you to think about.. the rest is up to you..
also, whatever is between you and Drekx is exactly that... between you and him... but you did express to me how you feel about him.. and so I offered a suggestion.. its up to you Anja.. but for now, there is not much else I can say... Im only offering to help you with the idea of forgiving him.. that is all.. there is no forcing involved..
I just watched the video and its cool .. so thank you...
As far as I can make out.. expressing true forgivenss is something that is not undone... when you forgive all.. then there are no ifs, buts or maybes... its forgiven and you move on... so there is no need to dwell on stuff.. if its forgiven, then its forgiven.
and then its time to let go.. and move on.. to know that you did your best to forgive and not to keep returning back to the hurt or to continue to go round and round inside the head... dwelling on someone or somrthing.. life passes you by and you find you have been harping on and on about some issues you have with someone.. and all the while, others are busy.. not even thinking about you... I am now speaking generally.. so if you feel a soul is really under your skin and just wont go away.. then what is it about yourself that is allowing it to happen.. dont forget, we create what we recieve.. so ineffect, you are also creating whatever you are expierencing.. it is all of your own choosing... so many souls complain about others.. but they have forgotten that it is all their own stuff that they are creating... and those who deny that they do not create their entire life expierence because they cannot fathom it, they are just simply not aware of higher truths, that is all.. they slam the notion that they are creating all the discord that is in their lives.. and blame others for the way things have turned out for them.. they lash out at others through fear because they have forgotten that they have created all of it...by themselves.. you are the only one who is bringing into your life all you are getting.. no one else.. you are doing it all.. all of the expierences you are attracting is written in your own soul contract, a contract that you are now honouring.. and written by you.. before you were born.
Thats about it Anja... I have nothing more to add really.. Im going to browse through the website and catch up on some of the other folks blogs and discussions.. so thank you for this meaningfull and heartfelt exchange of energy.. I enjoyed it..
much Love.. and take care..
Luke.
The "peace" remains within each of us... There is a lot of drama that takes place here on Malkuth, but that is just details when it comes to who we truly are, and what we are here to represent.
One of the primary ways we combat our own drama and others who try to attack us, is the way we re-act to those things. In general, we have to take responsibility for how we re-act... Who we support, and what we stand for...
There are going to be battles that happen between members, but we are all still a cosmic family, some are just going to different destinations...
We each have the ability to become better people and learn to re-act in constructive ways... Our perception also plays a huge role in who we become in this life - and - beyond ~ :)
Thats fine Anja...
listen, all I can offer to you right now is an idea fo you to think about... if you have felt bullied, then reach in and forgive whoever it is.. I know I am talking about forgiveness again, but it is the key anja.. because understanding the power of forgiveness is a deep Spiritual knowledge that you have, it shows Spiritual knowledge, wisdom, and great Love... in fact, forgiveness is the highest form of Love .. and I take it you wish to express the highest form of Love you have within you.....forgiveness is the great healer..
thats all I can say... forgive.. forgive Drekx and let him be ... you dont have to communicate with him at all.. but you can reach inside your heart and find forgiveness.. you dont have to be on the same page as Drekx.. I am sure he means you no ill will at all.. can you see the higher self that he is.. can you recognise him as your brother .. that you and he are long lost sisiter and brother.. Im not asking you to like anyone.. thats entirely up to you..
and yes, we dont have to try to Love everyone.. we simply just Love everyone unconditionally.. no matter what... we dont have to like people.. but its nessesary to see the Love in all .. and even people who dont have it in their vibration, or would rather express nastyness have covered up their Love...so it is in there... there is even the tinyest light in the darkest soul..
because we all come from the one original source energy vibration.. we are all part of one another.. we originate from a Prime Creator or pure Love.. and where we are all going.. is back to that Love...which is within all of us.. the bit inbetween is just the awakening to that absolute reality..so its like a cosmic play.. and we all play a part.. lifetime after lifrtime.. slowly awakening.. until we get it right.. and be the Love that we are..
and maybe its also part of your job to remind others of their own Love and the importance of forgiveness..
I remember watching a video ages ago of a woman in India who had gone through all manor of heavy stuff, humiliation, abuse etc.. but she reached a point of exaustion and she sought deeply for forgiveness.. and she searched her heart and she found it.. she gave herself forgiveness and she was able to forgive those who had hurt her in the past because she relised that she had created it all, that no one else had brought anything into her life that she did not choose to expierence.... and she recognised that there is a higher harmony going on.. she found great inner peace as a result..
well.. thats about as real as it gets.. so as you say, lets bring peace and Love on this site as far as we can.. well, for me that includes everyone Anja.. not one soul excluded, because when we exclude even one soul.. we are denying Love to an aspect of ourself to enable that part of us to heal itself.. when what we really want is to return to the heart of all creation.. because we know in our hearts, that there is no discord in the infinite conciousness that we really and truely are, and that is also what we are here to remember.
forgiving a bully doesnt stop the bully from continuing to hurt people.
Anja.. thank you .. I appreaciate your reply...
.. I have a feeling things are getting better between the members in here.. as well as in the world ... I recognise that you have a good heart and I know you just want to see peace amonge the foums.. that is also what I want...
and yes, it feels awful when there are bad vibes between people.. I can bet that if the members in here actually met each other in the flesh, there would be absolutely nothing but good feelings between them.. and a good example is Ben Arions Los Angelas meetup.... people meet up and hug each other.. there is heart connection because souls are right beside each other..there is no great divide .. there is no internet screen seperating them.. its just Love, compassion and understanding.. and most importantly .. forgivness.. perhaps the only uneasy feeling people might have would be shyness or feeling nervice to meet but when all guards are down and Love is exchanged.. maybe tears come up.. it becomes glorious.. and they may wonder why there was ever a falling out between them.. it is all healed through Love and forgiveness.. and then excitement emerges because they have connected on a far deeper Spiritual level..
.. there is also great respect that comes to the surface.. when people are talking to each other and getting to know one another face to face.. there is no reason for folks to raise their shields.. and there is a depth of understanding between them that gets stronger.. they become better friends because they are able to share with each other their Love and Joy aswell as their fears, pains and sorrows and so on.. and so the compassion is there.. and a deep level of heart felt friendship emerges.. it would be amazing if that could happen in this website..
anyway.. thank you Anja.. I wish you Love always.. and that goes for Kelly ann aswell .. she is also a sensitive soul .. I know that and I would also like for her to feel only Love.. because she also has much Love to give...and I would like to take this oppurtunity to extend my own heartfelt apologies to both yourself and to Kelly ann, if there was any past misunderstands or bad feelings... and I seriously mean that from my heart..
.. it is the same for Drekx and Kelly Lightchalice.. there is a great Love that they have, not only for each other as soul mates, but for the entire Ashtar Command community.. and they also do not mean any bad vibes towards anyone.. in fact, on a very deep Spiritual level, they are providing a tremendous oppurtunity for others to develope their awareness of higher truths.. by sharing their own higher truths.. and yes, Drekx and myself had a very, very brief misunderstanding.. and make no mistake, it was absolutely not any game nor orchastrated by him nor myself .. it was as real it gets.. it was absolutely real.. but Drekx is wise and knows forgiveness..
Both Drekx and Kelly L are very sensible and knowledgable individuals, and as for that tiny bump along the road, Drekx understood, as I did.. that it was nothing more than a tiny misunderstanding and probibly more on my part than his.. he is right about his understanding of the GFL and I am only learning.. but as I said, for anyone who presumed it was a game, it wasnt.. that brief misunderstanding was as real as it gets.. which is now, thankfully healed.
If we could all pull together and look upon the exhanges in this website as offerings of Love between us, like gifts exchanged instead of closing up and denying our Love to one another.. then we are really on a faster track back to the Light.. there is no real or permenent negitive energies within us.. there is only Love.. and Love is what we all want.. at the end of the day.
So, Love to you Anja.. and to all.. always.. because we are all connected, through Love, forever.
Hi anja, thanks for sharing your perspectives.
Peace ultimately is within as others pointed out, though being human at this time, the human vessel has needs and pretty much the whole human experience boils down to how we all meet these needs.
Though my earthly experience so far, shows that individuals or groups that have a controller energy attached to them, seem to want to hijack some things that are created and reform them into something more like the energies they embody.
At the core of all seen and unseen scenarios in this realm, are the methods by which humans acquire their basic needs.
If these methods are not harmonious and balanced themselves, then eventually most other human interactions will be unbalanced as well.
If all have all basic needs met, without even the idea that these needs could ever be threatened, then we will know we have created balanced human living systems that are based in harmonious cooperation for the highest good of all.
Until such time, expect ones and groups to continue to hijack, for they either are receiving compensation for doing so or are in fear in some way of their needs not being met or the overindulgence there of (greed, power, control, etc.).
If we really try and keep things as simplistic as possible, it is easy to comprehend why many do as they do.
If one has all needs met, ideally without being beholden to another, then what motivation would one have to do anything to harm another in any word or deed.
No human being would take orders from another human being, as their is nothing that can be held over their head because they have all they need.
Maybe this makes more sense to folks, why we see disharmony in any form in this world, it all comes home to roost one way or another, if their exists imbalance in regard to human basic needs of life.
peace love light