This discussion is mostly aimed at those who are advanced and are mature.
I'm wanting to know who else is feeling that they are just not that interested in relationships or sex anymore.
I have been fine with established lovers here or there over the years without getting right into a relationship with them. (Based on mutual respect and trust). However, it was surprising to just turn off meat and animal products overnight, now I'm overcoming alcohol cravings and am conscious (and now desire to) giving it up altogether just as I always knew I'd become vegetarian again. I'm wondering if chocolate is next in attempt to keep eating only the purest of foods.
I've been meditating everyday and it's doing wonders.
But, I have a hunch that I'm not as needy now and whether I'm going to manage? I really enjoyed a beautiful night alone (Saturday) last night as I made an organic salad and did my own thing. I got up and saw the stars out this morning and enjoyed the peaceful surrounds.
I'm not sure if I'm wanting to join my energies with someone that is not vibrating at the same rate anymore. We have all had dysfunction but joining with someone who isn't trying to attain to be spiritual - you just don't know really.
Any thoughts? If you've been single and on your path alone and managed well, I'd love to hear.
Butterfly
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Hi,
I understand where you are coming from. I have been single and celibate for nearly 4 years, and absolutely loving it. It's amazing just being single!
Love
Rev.B
Hi Ilriaa
That's so true about 'other' people being worried about people who arn't in relationships. It's almost like peer group pressure, it's so stupid.
And yes you do lose yourself being in a relationship. We've spent alot of our time 'finding' ourselves.
I have read this book that talks about new age people especially those being born now will use intercourse as a means to deepen their connection. I am very much an indigo and I had thought about this since I was a very young teen, though now with relationship experience and an excruciating amount of knowledge I feel that I have the ability to jettison over anything physical and I AM just like you are describing. I cant believe it, but I was always prepared to believe it that I am actually tired of intercourse. I could explain why but If anyone reading this could just except that and go with the flow that would be nice. Anyone not ready to say those words will never understand on what level you are vibing, my friend. Anything physical is physical. No matter how new age you believe you are or what you are attuned to, if you are still looking for physical connection then you do not share a physical body with your "other side". They are probably still in another body separate from yours and lets hope you find them in the next two years. The closer you are to this the more knowledge you will be ready to gain and the easy it will be for you to connect with the ascension process. If you still feel the need to have intercourse " on a regular basis", i.e., either daily or twice a week then you may still be caught up in the controlling biology of physical life.
All of this information is something you have to be able to let in. You will not agree if you are not on a level to perceive it. All high knowledge has to be gained through time and thought and the acceptance of it. Most female bodies will be more likely to understand not needed intercourse but that is biology and sometimes emotions. This not wanting or needed intercourse or a relationship has nothing to do with emotions or biology and everything to do with your mind set and the things you expose yourself to and your everyday life. Balance, harmony and truth will set your mind and body free from things that are distracting you from what is real and a real sense of freedom.
Just to cushion the information I will say that when you share your body with your other half that is the real connection and not necessarily the real one when you connect from separate bodies. It is hard for those who do not feel this way to understand that this high obtain ability is feasible and right around the corner. We have lived as Physical bodies so long that those not ready to let go will regulate themselves and others through fear and the hope of connecting with their "soul mate" not knowing that the real connection is something that is hard to feel with a human body unless you are already connected. Some people who feel they are two different sexes mentally who have spiritual connections may have a higher ability to come to these feelings sooner than others.
Even those who have found a separate body “soul mate” will have to leave their bodies at a different time than the other person when they pass on and will have to go through who knows what combination of things to re obtain that connection. I could go on about that but, that is another discussion but relevant to the issue at hand. So, if you are trying to connect that way, you may have to live a few more times until you get it right of which is a whole other issue as well.
Its like everything we do on Earth in a physical body has an ultimate attainability that anyone can have if we simply want it. Wanting physical things is an inhibiter to that attainment and not something to be ashamed of in life. Actually, if we lived in another time or dimension it would be revered as an everyday ability, the common. Makes you realize the low level we live on in this realm.
With love and light,
Shannon A. C.
Everything I say is in the light of love and the giving of knowledge. Something’s in the world are hard to understand, that is why some of us are here to help. If I seem harsh let me know and I can explain things in more detail, as it is hard to sum up a large amount of understanding in just a few random paragraphs.
The sexual part of life on Earth is a part of duality. The masculine and feminine separation is a 3D construct. Sex and the animosity between these Divine aspects; Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine ~ are to move into the higher realms of being. A higher vibration and frequency of unconditional love not open to those who remain in the 3D.
Ask to rise above these old constructs in duality. It is open to us to become LOVE. We are to become Christed Beings now! It's a choice you are making whether you realize it or not on a moment to moment basis. Remain tethered to your 3D body in duality or realize that we have a great opportunity to rise above these old limitations and move onward and upward into higher realms open to us now.
Again, it's a choice. We've spent 13 million years getting to this point of Earth's ascension. We came to assist but may have forgotten our Divine plan. We can choose to ascend with some other Earth at a later date but know this: We are choosing to ascend or not at this very moment. We are in the last stages prior to shifting timelines. You can ask to ascend and remember. You can ask by saying: "I ask that my axiatonal lines be reconnected. And so it is..." You can ask by saying, "Please put me on the Ascension timeline! Please use me as an anchor of ascension and abundance on Earth! Please remove the veils of forgetfulness from my eyes! I ask to remember all that I am and all that I am becoming. I ask to become LOVE and a Christed Being now!" These are some choices we can make in these last moments of linear time.
Know this: Ask and it is granted! Ask and it is open to all! Ask for your own heartlight to guide and direct you now! Much love! We can do this with great unity of purpose... Be love now! It's open to you! xoxoxoxoxox
Resonates with me...what a great read! Y truly are connected.
much love Christine
What you describe feels like how I've lived life, even from childhood. I've never felt needy for others (although I certainly appreciate them and make time for them), have felt full and whole when in solitude doing something I love to do (like making things or walking outdoors), and never really craved a family of my own creation. The chance of finding a compatible partner seems so rare that I do not linger on it. Should that person arrive, wonderful. In the meanwhile, I have chosen to platonically love and respect all those around me for their own unique beauty. I want nothing, I expect nothing. I am whole and happy. (And as for physical yearnings...they seem to be not so strong or apparent, and that seems to be okay. That energy must be getting channeled into other things.)
At this point in my life, in my 40s now, a close friend said to me that I've "married myself," which I find fascinating to think about. I left my job and career in NYC to move to a strange, new city and bought a house that I have been renovating full-time for the last two years. I suppose these are things we do when significant others come into our lives and we form partnerships. It doesn't seem strange at all to me to do it on my own, and I would recommend to anyone denying themselves something they want because of public perception to kindly look past it, honor yourself, free your soul. What is that quote? Live the life you always imagined...go boldly in the direction of your dreams. Whatever that is to you, if it feels right, do it.
I think that your raised vibration is a beautiful thing. The path may seem lonely at times, but you are never -- never -- alone.
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