Going Through It

Well my brothers and sisters I'm going through a bit of an issue and having trouble dealing with this. I'm at a loss as to what to do or even if I should try anymore? The problem concerns my best friend of 22 years! Back when we first met we had long, deep spiritual talks from dusk to dawn, all night we'd talk and we amde plans for the future.

Now he is engaged, his world revolves around this woman, this is fine by me, I'm very happy for him. However it seems she has turned him into a MATERIALIST and he is no longer into spirtuality. He has also become a big "My Space" fan and I'm NOT into sites like that, the people are rude and materialistic and just not my cup of tea!!

This is my beft frend, he's like family too me, but recently I had a bit of a personal issue and he made ALL these big promises and he let me down!! This is out of character and not in his nature to do this.

I'm at a loss as this is my dear friend, my best friend, but he keeps talking my fiance...my fiance....my fiance and it's starting to bother me. His facination with this woman is a little strange? he has forgotten himelf? he has given up on his own spirituality and the plans we had made and I'm at a cross roads as to what I should or shouldn't do next?

The whole scenario has made me sad, angry, resentful and just blue.

Good Morning, Thanx guys for your love, kind words and input into helping me understand and deal with this issue. I think "we" ourselves know exactly what we need to do, BUT sometimes we are unsure if we're making the RIGHT choice? Change can be scary especially when dealing with the unfamillair, i.e. being in a new town, new friends, new situations, etc? When you're facing it alone it can be a tough transition. It's like I know what the outcome is going to be but sometimes the "journey" is what I'm afraid of? I just have to have a long, hard, belly laugh because THAT's just NOT my nature, I'm a sagitarius and we saggies usually dive in head first. I guess I was afraid to go forward without my friend because he has been a big part of my life and we've done so much together. Hearing advice from othe rlike minded people who are on the same journey makes the transition easier and less scary. Thanx guys^_^

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J~{Shaar'Ah'Ai'La}~ July 11, 2010 at 12:44am

Yeah been on both sides of this one for sure. I think you know what's up, all I would say is don't burn bridges. Sometimes people change, sometimes they change again. Love what agnes said there, someday we'll all meet again, I'm sure of that.
Sashia Ishizu-Ishtar July 10, 2010 at 5:52pm

NYC? That is a typo!?....rollingover, falling out of chair, lol.....NO I moved to San Diego. I'm staying with a friend on her boat. It's rather exciting a sliving on a boat is quite different from living on land. But it's been quite and adventure already!!

Yes you are correct, I alway land on my feet....lol, at least I stopped landing on my head!? You are corret, sometimes the landing is hard and not the desried "soft" landing, but never the less it all works out in the wash.

Thank you for your kind words and input, I enjoy sharing with people here on this site.^_^
Sashia Ishizu-Ishtar July 10, 2010 at 5:06pm

Good Morning, Thanx guys for your love, kind words and input into helping me understand and deal with this issue. I think "we" ourselves know exactly what we need to do, BUT sometimes we are unsure if we're making the RIGHT choice? Change can be scary especially when dealing with the unfamillair, i.e. being in a new town, new friends, new situations, etc? When you're facing it alone it can be a tough transition. It's like I know what the outcome is going to be but sometimes the "journey" is what I'm afraid of? I just have to have a long, hard, belly laugh because THAT's just NOT my nature, I'm a sagitarius and we saggies usually dive in head first. I guess I was afraid to go forward without my friend because he has been a big part of my life and we've done so much together. Hearing advice from othe rlike minded people who are on the same journey makes the transition easier and less scary. Thanx guys^_^

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