God said:

Yes, your human heart seems to be a kind of barometer. It goes up, and it goes down. Your beloved heart goes to extremes. No matter how much you intend to not to be upset, you still get upset.

You react, as if it is urgent that you react. You seem to be unable to hold back even an hour. It is an immediate thing with you.

The expression “living in the now” isn’t meant to apply to a fast comeback that puts other people in their place.

What is your place, dear ones?

You feel it is urgent to represent yourself, as if this were the last minute of a baseball game, as if it were urgent to make your homerun now.

The thing is, when you are hot under the collar, you’re not using your head.

It’s probably safe to say you also aren’t using your true heart but, rather, your emotive heart. Rash emotions take over. Does this all sound familiar to you? Rashness takes over and you say your piece?

Well, maybe you do not have to get whatever it is off your chest.

Next time you feel you must confront another, remember that, within your heart, lies Mine. Accommodate My heart. Lay My heart bare.

Lean into My heart. I guarantee that rashness will be appeased and slink away. At present, often or always, after you confront someone, how you may wish you had waited until you cooled off.

Hey, beloveds, why don’t you talk to Me before indulging your rancor? Something someone says or did does pushes your buttons. Remind yourselves, your buttons are your buttons.

Now, I’m going to say the opposite. Maybe it’s time you vented your spleen. Maybe you’ve been waiting too long.

It’s possible you needed to assert yourself long before, when you could have done so in a more friendly way.

As it is, you let resentment accumulate, and then you burst out with words that may add to mutual rancor.

So, your lesson could be to speak up sooner.

We could compare your not speaking up to riding on the wrong train quite a while, and then you are mightily annoyed at the conductor.

Truth is, you are ticked off at yourself. You were, perhaps, too timid earlier, and, then, in time, your temper grew and flared, angry as you were at your own timidity. Is this your story? Always, often, sometimes?

And then, when you speak up, you over-compensate for your delay?

What is it that holds you back from speaking up in the first place before your anger mounts? You are afraid that someone will hit you?

Of course, you know they won’t hit you. You may fear you will injure their feelings, but, probably, what you really fear is that they may hurt yours. You fear they may not like you anymore.

You are the one We are talking about now, and you may tend to be silent for too long until you decide that you are putting up with too much.

There is no blame, beloveds. Really, there is no blame to another, and no blame to you. Forget about fault. Forget blame altogether.

You may think you learned your lesson until the next time, when you learn it all over again, and there is another replay.

Hear it from Me. You are entitled to speak up. You spend too much time weighing the merits of what you think, and, later, you hurt the person’s feelings, more than you would have in the first place.

Could well be better to speak up in the now.

Which are you? Too late? Too soon? A combination of both?

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