In my last blog: http://lightworkers.org/blog/190114/new-level-spiritual-evolution I mentioned that my process of personal/spiritual evolution would cause me to de-sync from people who operate on slower patterns.
Here I will expand on that topic and provide some of my insights into what is occurring.
Those who are going through personal/spiritual development will notice spikes/peaks in the intensity and speed of their growth.
Now depending on one's level of cultivation, various effects can occur.
One of these is your energetic and emotional connection to people around you, most importantly those you are in close relationships with.
The first thing to consider is that there is something which is called an etheric cord. These are basically lines of energy which emanate from the body and aura between two people.
Cords will vary between individuals depending on their personality and relationship with the other person. For example, lovers will have a strong thick cord between them that glows bright.
People who argue a lot will have a fuzzy dim coloured cord, and cords between people with distaste for each other also often link into body organs, especially around the stomach.
The second thing to consider is that these cords are a natural phenomena, just like how the scent of someone else will linger on the skin/clothes upon close contact.
There are benefits and downsides to cords however and I will list some of them.
As mentioned before, people with distaste for each other will develop fuzzy dim coloured cords.
This cord has the potential to influence ones emotional state, mental state, and energetic state. It can cause the subconscious negative thoughts one person habours to travel to the other person and thus alter their state.
In such a case it can result in both people subconsciously sending 'subtle negatives' to each other without any conscious awareness of anything happening.
You could just wake up in a bad mood for no reason, but really it could be a cord.
That is one of the negative aspects of a cord. A beneficial aspect of cords is that is literally keeps people connected.
Where physical separation has it's downsides, a strong cord can make up for it helping both people feel reassured on a subconscious level, and another person can send good vibes to someone else who is feeling down.
One overall issue of cords is that most people are not aware of them, so there is no upkeep on cords.
In worst cases often physical/verbal action has to take place in order for someone to disconnect a cord from another since they don't have the ability to simply cut the cord themselves and stop certain situations from developing.
An example of a situation is where someone has an ex partner whom they've had negative situations develop from. Even through they have split, the cord remains.
This means the new partners cords can become intertwined with the ex's cord and thus disrupt the new relationship and things can go wrong with no apparant cause.
Personally I manage my cords often.
I am now able to identify when a cord has 'gone bad' or when someone I'm connected to is actually trying to lower my frequency so that their cord remains attached to me.
This is another aspect of cords that must be understood when it comes to relationships between people whether it be friendly, sexual, or emotional.
When your frequency threshold goes beyond another's whom may be dependant on you in some way, it will cause subconscious stress to that person.
Then with no conscious awareness, that person will do things to bring your frequency back down to a level where they can resonate with you.
For them its great because their comforter who may be your self, remains in their atmosphere. However for you who belongs somewhere else, in a different atmosphere it will cause disruption and slow down our processes of development.
Ever noticed that when your happy, theres always someone or something that tries to bring you back down? Part of that is due to cords.
Also be aware that suddenly cutting a cord between you and someone can cause disruption in your relationship and how you perceive each other.
Here is a scenario:
Say a cord between you and a close friend becomes tangled up.
This means the energy transfer between both of you will form a disruptive static cloud around this knot, and it will cause all sorts of minor problems.
You may stop being able to understand each other, you may feel disdain or get upset really easily with each other and if you reflect upon it, there will be no real reason and then your brain will try to define a logical cause, and thus you will create a problem out of nothing.
So the obvious step would be to cut the cord. Upon cutting the cord, you will feel refreshed and relieved.
But the other person who is not aware of cords may feel lost and confused, they may feel like you've done something bad, even though you've done nothing.
This is why I will often tell people who are close to me that I am going to cut a cord.
And whenever I do cut a cord, they do indeed notice the things I've listed above.
It is especially important for those with very sensitive empathy to maintain their cords because you can easily become overloaded with other's emotions and energies and thus become destabalised.
Now I will list some simple ways to interact and manage cords:
Cutting Cords
To cut a cord you must first calm your mind and close your eyes. Enter your inner domain and feel out your aura.
You will begin to see/feel glowing white lines that seem to extend out of your body.
Depending on your ESP (extrasensory perception) you may even be able to visually trace the cord and see the person on the other end of it.
As a beginner to this aspect however, you will most likely just see/feel the cords as if they extend and vanish into the blackness of the mind's eye in various direction.
At this point you can ask your self what a particular cord represents, or simply affirm that you wish to cut a specific cord between you and a certain person.
A visual I like to use is that of my astral body being projected outside of my auric field holding a samurai sword. With this sword I will slice specific cords.
A visualisation you could use is that of heavenly light beaming down which dissolves the cords, and remember to feel this process too.
It is not a mental exercise, the feeling part is most crucial if you want the process to be efficient.
You can expand these techniques to the whole of your body and cut all cords, doing what I call a total refresh.
I will either feel the sword slashing around my aura, or make my aura it's self spin and sever the cords.
Finally affirming that the cords will not reform until I am ready.
Smoothing Cords
If a cord between you and a close friend/partner seems to be knotted you can simply feel out the cord until you find the knot.
Either feel or visualise your spiritual hands delicately running across the knot, knowing that your intent to repair/smooth it out is powerful enough to make it happen.
You do not have to get too technical, usually your intent is enough.
Post Operation (lol)
After cutting cords you your self may feel lonely or weird.
During this time it is great to meditate and enter your inner self.
Ask questions, play out scenarios, reaffirm your beliefs and state your ambitions and goals.
This way when the cords begin to reform, there will be more sovereignty in the connection and there will be less disruption because you've made it clear before hand what will exist in your field/reality.
This is just a brief overview on etheric cords. Please feel free to ask any questions.
Thanks for reading.
Peace.
Source:http://lightworkers.org/blog/190117/de-syncing-people-etheric-cords
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