Is it worng to be a 48 year old man and want to be rescued.to want someone to just say im here you'll be ok now? I have been on my own sense i was 14,never asked anyone for help,and now all that I have and hold close to me is falling apart.
i dont know maybe never asking for help and always doing it alone even whin i was married was my big mistake. it just feels worng to say I need it...BUT I DO.
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Its never wrong. I myself have had a similar experience. Never asked but 1 time and got my feelings hurt, so never again. Even for the smallest things. Although now I realize, we are only human and sometimes we will need that sort of thing. Just choose those people wisely. Love and sincerity are a precious commodity.
No it's not wrong, my friend....everyone needs a helping hand every now and then...this world is a world we share with each other, this universe is a co-creative universe. We really are all in this together. Me too I been very independent all my life, and proud...I never wanted help, or charity, and it bugged me whenever I had to ask for help...because obviously part of power is having the power within you to be sovereign and take care of yourself.
But, I think we all go through things in life...where we will eventually need the help of others. We aren't perfect, we aren't all powerful or all knowing...we rely on others for alot of things, whether it's someone teaching you something, learning something from others work...or even things like the car you drive, the roads we drive on, the house we have, the computer we're typing on right now...all was made by someone else. We need each other, even for things like companionship and good times. We can't always be alone, or we'll be unhappy. So we're really all inter-dependent in alot of ways.
We really do need others...and that's okay. It's good to accept and receive graciously too. I think if we all work to help each other...then that will make all of our lives alot more easier, and more richer. So I think it's okay to help, and he helped in return...in fact, it's necessary.