Ive been with my boyfriend for three months but ive known him for 5 years and ive been crazy for him for 4, things didnt work out before cause i was insecure and bipolar with my feelings but a few months ago things finally worked out. lately Ive been getting really bored with him, for one he's just not how he used to be.. I find myself talking on  the phone with him and zoning out or hoping he would just hang up, just yesterday I told him I was going to sleep but that was a lie instead I watched a movie, I get annoyed easily, it feels like everything even saying I love you is a routine, last time I hung out with him I was distant and I wasnt really enjoying his touch, like I didnt mind it but it almost felt like a drag, I feel incredibly guilty and confused because this has happened before with him and I pushed him away but later regreted it, maybe im just so bored with life in general I feel he's getting boring aswell, before Id pray to just hear his voice for a few seconds, before all id do was think about him, even recieving a message from him made my heart skip a beat. Ive never felt that way about anyone, in fact hes my first boyfriend and we have absolutely everything in common even the way we talk is the same, butI just feel so bored and its getting frustrated.. please any advice?
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  • Hope things are better for you now Dripley ... I think everyone goes through it .. more or less ..

    much Love to you ..

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  • Christina, thanks for your advice, I really appreciate it, and trust me Im trying, I just wish I knew what it was saying
  • Aqua, I know :(

    Im complaining and its foolish but I just wanna get out of my house and not to go to a party, not to do something crazy, just to see something new, to the core of my post I think I might just be bored in general, these four walls are driving me crazy, sitting n the grass outside isnt helping anymore, playing piano isnt doing it either, exersice internet book, nothing... I wish I could go to a beach or something but its just no one has time :(

    I know I may sound a bit self entered but being in the same routine everyday is really frustrating

     

     

  • butterfly, no it isnt a sexual relationship, I dont feel ready for that and like I said he is my first boyfriend but I feel ive known him for a lifetime, and I do love myself sometimes not as much as wish but I do, its him who doesnt love himself, and sometimes its like he depends on me to feel good and motivated and ive been trying to let him know that I dont want it to be that way, I dont want him to be depending on me for happiness, its like im being drained sometimes.. :(
  • indigo im not bipolar, im simply asking for advice. your right, the majority of the discussions on this website are about ET's and people and stories that for the most part sound like complete lies to me, but I have learned somethings and its incredible that I can talk with complete strangers like sometimes I cant even talk to my friends. I dont feel im dishonoring him, have I told you who he is? no, Im simply trying to understand what im feeling, im not expecting anyone here to tell me what to do im just asking for advice for some experience. your right, im sure not everyone in this sight is genuine, and not everyone is really interested in sharing light, but I am and just cause others dont feel the same doesnt mean I cant and I cant know who's honest and who isnt so why will I bother trying to know? yes I have a picture posted here but not my real name not my age, Im not posting messages from aliens, im not claiming to be enlightened cause frankly i dont feel i am, Im a teenager, and this is someone who is extremely important to me, someone I dont ever wanna hurt, someone who I feel comftorble with, who knows me down to the t just like I know him, but Im not perfect and I cant control how I feel and I dont wanna fake it, and honestly I dont see this as an e.t site, I didnt find this site searching for aliens, I found it searching for love, yeah I know thats not something you find on a computer, but I did find some great people who wouldnt mind sharing some advice when I asked for it. thank you anyways tho
  • A private email from Indigo to Butterfly would have been more appropriate.

     

    I'm over this website!  Too much fear and controlling of other people.

  • I honestly can't see that my advice was harmful in any way.

     

    Your reaction though is one of fear.

     

    I have often asked advice here, more about ascension symptons or the process of spiritual growth etc.  I'm glad people jumped in and were loving enough.  The decisions I make after I receive advice, are my responsibility.

     

    This lady can make her own choices.  Are you saying she is a human who is not capable or responsible for her own decisions?  Maybe the 'system' should take care of her.  The 'system' offers people no solutions, other than to maybe take her to a mental hospital overnight against her will.  Give her a pill then discharge her.

  • Gee Indigo

     

    I'm saddened by your response.  You don't know our credentials because on this website, we do not promote them.  It is not appropriate, nor do we advertise to gain business or promote our websites.

     

    I answered because it took love to do so.  You posted something last week, about showing love to people, going out of our way to send a card to someone hurting, being there.  Now you turn around and freak out because we reach out to someone with advice and love? 

     

    I think a good therapist thinks outside the square including metaphysical information with that they have learned at University. 

     

    Please make up your mind Indigo.

     

    I'm finding the energies here just too negative now.  It's been a discouraging, tiring week on this website.  I'm not sure it's really a temple of learning anymore.

     

     

  • I happen to think that Indigo1955's response is quite harsh, but I think she is coming from a place of protection for you. My opinion to your post...you already answered yourself.  Only YOU know what is best for YOU.  In your stillness you know what your inner voice is saying.  Trust it. 

    Blessings & Love

     

    Christina

  • hi Dripley

     

    If your relationship is based on sexual attraction, and not your ability to connect or communicate in a stimulating way, then you will naturally grow bored.  If he has been your first boyfriend, then this is all you've known.  Sexual attraction is not enough to sustain a relationship, even though the attraction is intense. 

     

    When you have other relationships in the future, you will learn the difference.  But this requires life experience. 

     

    Enjoy it for what it has been.  But now you are feeling like you are wanting something deeper that perhaps this relationship can't provide.  It is no one's fault.  It is just the DYNAMIC within this particular relationship.

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